Hi guys, I'm completely lost here. The other person (seeing her again) is not me, and it's not my husband, I am sure of that. Now yes, there are some things that I admit are errerly( did I spell that right?) similiar, the dates are close, but my husband isn't to that extreme I don't think, and he doesn't have access to the computer at the dates/times he has, plus I checked and that person has been posting things about this for awhile. I haven't been going threw this for that time frame.
My main issue is that: I do love my husband, and I know he loves me, and we love our kids, our family. And I know many families go through rough times, and no he should not say things to me, expecially in front of the kids, and that is why I insisted on marriage therapy. I do not want to give up unless i've tried my hardest, if that makes sense. NOw mabye I'll regret this later, I want to be able to be seperated and go to counseling. That is what I think will help the best. But we rent this house, and he doesn't want to leave, and I have no way to leave unless I move home (another state) so when we go to court I would like for his to have to leave until we have another hearing or we both cancel it or something, and I would like to have it arranged so if things don't work out or get worse I can move home with my parents. or around them for support.
I am not playing a game, and I don't understand why several people think that. I have been honest and just looking for some sound legal advice. Thank you, Julie.