another question, worried!!!

[Jennx1032]

what breed are the dogs?

They are boxers, they are supose to be good with children i thought.

 

[casa]

It may be listed under the Humane Society. Check the phone book.

 

[Jennx1032]

One more thing. No I am not paranoid I dont take my kids to the doctor every time they get a scratch. I keep antibiotic ointments at the house for that.

And i am not paranoid, i give a **** about my child!!!!!

 

[Zephyr]

They are boxers, they are supose to be good with children i thought.

boxers generally are good with children, however they are very hyper playful dogs as well, also easily trained, in your letter to dad maybe suggest an obedience class.

and can you elaborate on what happened to the little girls nose?

 

[Jennx1032]

Ahh...Memories. (Just Sharing)
My daddy decided to just head out and buy me a Maltese for my 4th b-day.
I named her Shammy (for Shamrock).
God, how I loved that dog, even though (since I was so short yet and such long hair) she would latch onto my hair and drag me like a doll. I still loved her and cried when they gave her away after she dragged me down the stairs.
The new owner had their nose mangled a few months later.

BTW, the grandparents will be fined for the dogs, not dad. But, you need to adress this now.

I am addressing this, i documented what happened, sent a letter to my ex and calling AC, but i guess to some other people who post here, that is going over board, some people really need to learn careing for a child.

 

[bononos]

A certified letter to the grandparents would be a good idea too. They are actually their dogs. Make sure you have copies of these letters you send also. Maybe if they are concerned enough for kiddo and with keeping their dogs, then they will control these animals properly.

 

[acmb05]

Where am I not making sense?

LOL get a life, now you are not making any sense, stay with one point if you want to argue, alittle advice for you.
And my post was asking if any legal action could be taken threw the courts. The dogs aren't my ex's they are his parents and live upstairs.
As far as i should have CALLED BY NOW, I didn't because yes he has come home with cuts and some bruises, but i wasn't going to jump the gun. As far as my cousin's face, yes i believe it was reported, i wasn't there, but nothing was done, i'm guessing cause they still have them.
Your partenting advice makes no sense, you go off on my going over board and then i should have called by now, make up your confused mind.I believe i am handling this the best way i can, and i am sorry if you think children that can not defend them selves getting hurt is okay, Hey i have an idea, why don't you tell a cps worker that, see what they say. I am sure they need a good laugh before they would take action on neglect.Really now getreal, you are argueing because i worry and want my child safe. wow you make no sense,lol

You are the one who brought up both points and I am not argueing I am stateing a fact, IF IT BOTHERED YOU THIS MUCH YOU WOULD HAVE CALLED HUMANE SOCIETY LONG BEFORE THIS.

These dogs almost ripped the nose off of another child on two seperate occasions and YOU DIDNT WANT TO JUMP THE GUN?

I said you are going overboard about the sratches but that YES IF it worried you this much you would have done something before now.

You are not handling it the best way you can.

1. These dogs are a threat and it has been shown on more than one occasions that they are a threat, however you have done nothing legally up to this point to have them removed from the home or to have your child not be able to visit there if the dogs are there. Asking dad not to have them around the kids is not enough as you well no.

2. These dogs are /or can be violent and you are still iffy on whether you should call someone about it.

3. I any of these attacks had been reported then state law says they would be quarantined for 10 days on the first call and siezed on the second. Btw it does not matter who owns the dogs IF you file a complaint it will be looked into.

SO either report the dogs and have them removed from the home for being dangerous or keep asking the ex nicely if he will keep the dogs away.

 

[Jennx1032]

boxers generally are good with children, however they are very hyper playful dogs as well, also easily trained, in your letter to dad maybe suggest an obedience class.

and can you elaborate on what happened to the little girls nose?

This was a few years ago, i was at the hospital with my little cousin, she was 3 at the time. Her noise was hanging off, this happened twice to her in the same mth, i was at the hospital but not there when it happened due to I had not yet met my husband till a year later, not knowing these where the same dogs or owner for that matter, till i introduced my ex to my little cousin's mother.

 

[Jennx1032]

You are the one who brought up both points and I am not argueing I am stateing a fact, IF IT BOTHERED YOU THIS MUCH YOU WOULD HAVE CALLED HUMANE SOCIETY LONG BEFORE THIS.

These dogs almost ripped the nose off of another child on two seperate occasions and YOU DIDNT WANT TO JUMP THE GUN?

I said you are going overboard about the sratches but that YES IF it worried you this much you would have done something before now.

You are not handling it the best way you can.

1. These dogs are a threat and it has been shown on more than one occasions that they are a threat, however you have done nothing legally up to this point to have them removed from the home or to have your child not be able to visit there if the dogs are there. Asking dad not to have them around the kids is not enough as you well no.

2. These dogs are /or can be violent and you are still iffy on whether you should call someone about it.

3. I any of these attacks had been reported then state law says they would be quarantined for 10 days on the first call and siezed on the second. Btw it does not matter who owns the dogs IF you file a complaint it will be looked into.

SO either report the dogs and have them removed from the home for being dangerous or keep asking the ex nicely if he will keep the dogs away.

HELLO READ MY OTHER POST I JUST POSTED, I DIDN'T KNOW MY EX NOR THOSE DOGS WHEN MY COUSIN WAS INJURED!!!!

 

[Zephyr]

This was a few years ago, i was at the hospital with my little cousin, she was 3 at the time. Her noise was hanging off, this happened twice to her in the same mth, i was at the hospital but not there when it happened due to I had not yet met my husband till a year later, not knowing these where the same dogs or owner for that matter, till i introduced my ex to my little cousin's mother.

I have no idea what you are trying to say in this, it doesn't clear anything up

upon introducing your then boyfriend to your cousin, you must have been told the connection....why weren't the dogs put down after that first incident? did you allow your child around the dogs when you and your ex were together?

 

[acmb05]

good for you

I am addressing this, i documented what happened, sent a letter to my ex and calling AC, but i guess to some other people who post here, that is going over board, some people really need to learn careing for a child.

Maybe it will take your child getting bit really bad before you stop being so damn nice to your ex and his parents. Sent a letter!!!!! these dogs need to be put down if they are that bad.

You need to learn careing for a child because most of us here would have called Animal Control the FIRST time this happened.

 

[acmb05]

And you just now

HELLO READ MY OTHER POST I JUST POSTED, I DIDN'T KNOW MY EX NOR THOSE DOGS WHEN MY COUSIN WAS INJURED!!!!

Mentioning this ? ??????

btw we were posting at the same time so stop yelling. Just goes to show you overreact.

 

[Jennx1032]

You are the one who brought up both points and I am not argueing I am stateing a fact, IF IT BOTHERED YOU THIS MUCH YOU WOULD HAVE CALLED HUMANE SOCIETY LONG BEFORE THIS.

These dogs almost ripped the nose off of another child on two seperate occasions and YOU DIDNT WANT TO JUMP THE GUN?

I said you are going overboard about the sratches but that YES IF it worried you this much you would have done something before now.

You are not handling it the best way you can.

1. These dogs are a threat and it has been shown on more than one occasions that they are a threat, however you have done nothing legally up to this point to have them removed from the home or to have your child not be able to visit there if the dogs are there. Asking dad not to have them around the kids is not enough as you well no.

2. These dogs are /or can be violent and you are still iffy on whether you should call someone about it.

3. I any of these attacks had been reported then state law says they would be quarantined for 10 days on the first call and siezed on the second. Btw it does not matter who owns the dogs IF you file a complaint it will be looked into.

SO either report the dogs and have them removed from the home for being dangerous or keep asking the ex nicely if he will keep the dogs away.

STOP ALREADY, you are not listening, just rambleing on about things that are you opinion of parenting, whitch let me add, i would ashamed if i let my child get hurt and do nothing, hello\
I will not repeat my last post cause your not even worth my time to try and slowly explain it to you. Sorry just don't have the time to teach you proper parenting skills, it is called maternal instincts, look it up.

 

[acmb05]

btw

HELLO READ MY OTHER POST I JUST POSTED, I DIDN'T KNOW MY EX NOR THOSE DOGS WHEN MY COUSIN WAS INJURED!!!!

You did know at some point and yet you still allowed your ex to keep your son over there around the dogs. You should have gotten an order to keep the dogs away from him while he is visiting your ex.

Don't even try this "they belong to his parents upstairs" cause you know damn well they have access to your son.

Now I was not trying to say you dont care what I was trying to say is maybe you are making it a bigger deal than it is. First you say he has two "GASHES" on his face when it all honesty they were merely scratches albeit they may have been pretty good size scratches they were not bad enough to require stitches. You made it sound like his face was ripped open.

 

[Jennx1032]

Maybe it will take your child getting bit really bad before you stop being so damn nice to your ex and his parents. Sent a letter!!!!! these dogs need to be put down if they are that bad.

You need to learn careing for a child because most of us here would have called Animal Control the FIRST time this happened.

Hello are you slow, i just posted i wasn't there when my cousin's attacks happened, here we go agin with the assuming, and making comments. I am a great mother, and care for my child everyday, humm that must be how i have sole custody.
Really take a class, it may help, also take a class on making and sticking to the point you started with.