another question, worried!!!

[LdiJ]

The bottom line is that you need to call animal control. These dogs are dangerous. Its past sending your ex a letter. Its time to call now.

If you can't find the phone number, then call the Humane Society and as them...they will be able to direct you.

 

[acmb05]

omg now whos blowing it all out of proportion

STOP ALREADY, you are not listening, just rambleing on about things that are you opinion of parenting, whitch let me add, i would ashamed if i let my child get hurt and do nothing, hello\
I will not repeat my last post cause your not even worth my time to try and slowly explain it to you. Sorry just don't have the time to teach you proper parenting skills, it is called maternal instincts, look it up.

Not once did I say I dont do anything when my kids get hurt. I said I dont rush them to a hospital or doctor ever time they get a scratch.

proper parenting skills LOL you have room to talk when you are still fiddling around trying to decide if you wanna wait till your child gets really hurt to take action.

 

[Jennx1032]

You did know at some point and yet you still allowed your ex to keep your son over there around the dogs. You should have gotten an order to keep the dogs away from him while he is visiting your ex.

Don't even try this "they belong to his parents upstairs" cause you know damn well they have access to your son.

Now I was not trying to say you dont care what I was trying to say is maybe you are making it a bigger deal than it is. First you say he has two "GASHES" on his face when it all honesty they were merely scratches albeit they may have been pretty good size scratches they were not bad enough to require stitches. You made it sound like his face was ripped open.

Fist off i never said his face was ripped open, get your facts straight. And yes they do belong to his parents, never said they didn't have access to my child, hum what is your point?And i was asking , not you, cause you know nothing, but i was asking what legal action i could take, go back read slower, maybe you will catch it.

 

[Jennx1032]

Not once did I say I dont do anything when my kids get hurt. I said I dont rush them to a hospital or doctor ever time they get a scratch.

proper parenting skills LOL you have room to talk when you are still fiddling around trying to decide if you wanna wait till your child gets really hurt to take action.

Like i said go back slow and read , i am taking action. Can you read?

 

[acmb05]

maybe you should

Hello are you slow, i just posted i wasn't there when my cousin's attacks happened, here we go agin with the assuming, and making comments. I am a great mother, and care for my child everyday, humm that must be how i have sole custody.
Really take a class, it may help, also take a class on making and sticking to the point you started with.

Take a class on kissing my ass. Why dont you grow some balls and tell your ex that you are having the dogs removed from the home because he refuses to control them.

Then go back and see where we were at the same time so dont yell at me for not reading something. When I posted it was not there.

 

[acmb05]

yea now you are

Like i said go back slow and read , i am taking action. Can you read?

After you got on here and asked IF you should.

 

[acmb05]

can you read?

Fist off i never said his face was ripped open, get your facts straight. And yes they do belong to his parents, never said they didn't have access to my child, hum what is your point?And i was asking , not you, cause you know nothing, but i was asking what legal action i could take, go back read slower, maybe you will catch it.

I did not say you said it. What I said is you made it SOUND that way. WOW and you talk about me not reading.

My point is you knew these dogs had done what they did in the past, maybe not when it first happened but you have known for awhile now and yet you did nothing to prevent them from having contact with your child. And being all nicey nice to ex and writing them a letter does not count as doing something.

And you question was answered a long time ago. So have you called them yet?

 

[Jennx1032]

Take a class on kissing my ass. Why dont you grow some balls and tell your ex that you are having the dogs removed from the home because he refuses to control them.

Then go back and see where we were at the same time so dont yell at me for not reading something. When I posted it was not there.

Kissing your ass, git a life, i don't have time for this, i have a job, oh at a hopstital, so trust me i know all about minor and major injuries, so please gove me a break with your over board ****, cause i don't want to hear it.
I am a great mother and i don't need to listen to someone who would think that am going over board.
Oh and yes i can not just remove the dogs myself, that is what AC is for, plus flipping out on him and his parents will only cause more problems. That's why they have AC, right?????

 

[Just Blue]

Jenn...stop responding to acmb05...he seem to want to bait you .....respond to the other question from those that want to help.

 

[Jennx1032]

Jenn...stop responding to acmb05...he seem to want to bait you .....respond to the other question from those that want to help.

Thanks i was just thinking the same thing.

 

[critterperson]

Pick your fights carefully!

Not to add fuel to a fire or anything but, Dogs or any animal for that matter can accidentally hurt a small child....Children aren't very steady on their feet at 2, and dogs can knock them down pretty easily.....A couple of scratches may be construed as petty in the eyes of a judge (sorry but two scratches that do not require stitches are minor)...This could be why the attorney is not calling you back...because it would only be a waste of your money to respond to something so minor.....Also as far a bruises... small children get them all of the time in there clumsy stage! My 14 month old you would think has a death wish...He climbs everything and has absolutely no self preservation instincts at all! I am sorry that you are concerned for your child but I think it has more to do with trying to control the atmosphere at dads than it does with your child actually getting severely hurt....Sorry just my opinion....You can call the humane society if it eases your mind, but don't be surprised if dad responds in kind....You have to choose your battles wisely...If you think the two scratches are worth reporting go ahead and report it, but think long and hard before opening a can of worms....People get really attached to their pets, and if you wrongfully get these animals put down dad may be looking to take something from you, or at least fight you for something you really care about! Good Luck to you!!

 

[Jennx1032]

Not to add fuel to a fire or anything but, Dogs or any animal for that matter can accidentally hurt a small child....Children aren't very steady on their feet at 2, and dogs can knock them down pretty easily.....A couple of scratches may be construed as petty in the eyes of a judge (sorry but two scratches that do not require stitches are minor)...This could be why the attorney is not calling you back...because it would only be a waste of your money to respond to something so minor.....Also as far a bruises... small children get them all of the time in there clumsy stage! My 14 month old you would think has a death wish...He climbs everything and has absolutely no self preservation instincts at all! I am sorry that you are concerned for your child but I think it has more to do with trying to control the atmosphere at dads than it does with your child actually getting severely hurt....Sorry just my opinion....You can call the humane society if it eases your mind, but don't be surprised if dad responds in kind....You have to choose your battles wisely...If you think the two scratches are worth reporting go ahead and report it, but think long and hard before opening a can of worms....People get really attached to their pets, and if you wrongfully get these animals put down dad may be looking to take something from you, or at least fight you for something you really care about! Good Luck to you!!

Well if you read all the post , you will see that these dogs are a danger to my child, also if you read back you will see that isn't the reason my lawyer hasn't returned my call, he is having some family issues right now, he knows nothing about this situation, because he hasn't been in the office.
I believe two attacks of ripping a childs noise and a number of injuries to my child to be cause for alarm.Read the posts first before you state things on my reasons behind anything.I am not trying to control my ex's home at all, but me being the mother diserves to know and protect my child against anything.That is a mothers duties, and if you read the post you would see that my concerns are real.

 

[critterperson]

Well if you read all the post , you will see that these dogs are a danger to my child, also if you read back you will see that isn't the reason my lawyer hasn't returned my call, he is having some family issues right now, he knows nothing about this situation, because he hasn't been in the office.
I believe two attacks of ripping a childs noise and a number of injuries to my child to be cause for alarm.Read the posts first before you state things on my reasons behind anything.I am not trying to control my ex's home at all, but me being the mother diserves to know and protect my child against anything.That is a mothers duties, and if you read the post you would see that my concerns are real.

Then don't stop call the humane society right now! I wouldn't waste anymore time on here.....I was just letting you know that if you took time to email about it...it appeared as if you were questioning the validity of your claim....And dad might retaliate in kind...Good Luck to you!

 

[Jennx1032]

Then don't stop call the humane society right now! I wouldn't waste anymore time on here.....I was just letting you know that if you took time to email about it...it appeared as if you were questioning the validity of your claim....And dad might retaliate in kind...Good Luck to you!

I already called, and i gave dad a chance but their is no talking to him, so it is his own fault, i tryed my best to work it out between us. My child is most important here, not 2 dogs that are danger.

 

[Louiser]

all right children, knock it off

I found this soap opera in the midst of looking for something else. Stop bickering and stop judging. I can see how it can be construed that too little action too late is being considered by Mom but she is the only one who knows the dynamics of the family and she is doing what she thinks is best. We don't have sufficient info to critique her motives and responses. OTOH, I too may have acted sooner and more proactively but again, I am not there.
She asked for advice-give it to her. Law is a process, not an event. Precedent establishes a pattern of behavior and is done by reporting occurances. Contact AC, tell them what you know. Do it certified-return receipt as suggested. CC the lawyer or vice versa AND the grandparents AND the father. Be brief, courteous and to the point. Document and keep copies and keep notes (i.e. diary/calendar of any concerns or injuries). The appearance of concise records goes a long way in convincing the powers that be of your ability to be objective and rational. Presentation and perception are paramount especially when you generally get one chance to present your concerns. Also, is there anyway for the letter(s) she writes to get into her ongoing file/record or whatever it is? The more who know the better since people tend to be on their best behavior when it is observed.
Did I miss anything, kids? Now I am off to find my answer to my problem.