At Our Witts End...Help?

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I would hate to ever know that there was something I could have done to help them have full happy lives my parents beer gave me,

I'm sorry - I know it's the phone doing funky things, but I just had to see this again!

 

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Regarding the classes, he was stationed in Virginia. The part of the decree involving the classes was for when he separated from the military since he was not psychically in Missouri nor could he leave Virginia at will.

This is what I don't understand. If he was in VA at the time of the divorce (apparently), why did he/his lawyer not ask for classes that were local to HIM? And really - it would be most helpful if he could answer those questions himself.

One of the main reasons we ask for the involved party to post for him/herself is because otherwise we: 1) ask questions the third party doesn't know the answer to and/or 2) we end up with a high-tech game of Telephone.