He bought the car for me to use, I have been driving it and he drove our other vehicle. The loan is in his name, titled in both our names.
Some of what you report doesn't bear scrutiny. True, the vehicle could be
registered in you sole name or jointly, but
registration is not proof of ownership. Millions of motor vehicles are registered in names other than the true owners. The only legal evidence of ownership appears on the
certificate of title and I seriously doubt that you have ever seen it. For one the certificate of title has been in the safe keeping of the lien holder since day one; and will remain so until the loan is paid in full.
As to the state of ownership:
Since you claim that he alone
bought the car; that a loan was taken to complete the purchase, and most importantly you are not a party to that loan, then rest assured that your name will not appear on that certificate of title. Nor could he have had access to the certificate in order to have it submitted to DMV to be reissued to include your name.