sigh...
Actually, this site is for legal guidance...and every one of my posts to this thread was good legal guidance. The parenting classes will show the court/judge that you recognize that you need assistance in that area for the sake of the baby...because, obviously, what you and mom are doing isn't working. Same for the couples counseling...you need help in dealing with conflict. Calling the police to "scare" the other parent is a nasty, controlling and dangerous thing to do. Not to mention the waste of police resources...while they were responding to your nonsense someone else, perhaps in real danger, had to wait for help.