Birth Control

[stealth2]

Explain this please. He is fourteen. She is fourteen. They are both consenting. If this is true, wouldn't it work both ways. How do we know she didn't pressure him? Either way, they are both to young, but why would my son be the one facing charges?

Because right or wrong, it is most often the male who is considered the aggressor.

At 14, NEITHER of them can legally give consent. You are now in the unenviable position of knowing that they're doing something that they should not be doing. I agree with the poster who said that these two young people should be given no further opportunity to be alone together.

 

[luchettes]

I would tell her parents & the two would never meet ALONE or OTHERWISE again EVER. WOULD THAT NOT BE SIMPLER???
When do they have time ALONE to do this anyway? Are you guilty of aiding and abetting minors??? Are you allowing these CHILDREN to be behind closed doors while in your home? If it was my daughter, you’d be going DOWN lady. I don't give a crap what she told you about her parents, not many 14 year olds agree with their parents anyway.
Don’t you care about your son being a father at 14 enough to put a COMPETE STOP to it?
According to your post, you are all but lighting the candles.
KAT

Are you NUTS! AT WHAT POINT did I say that I was leaving them alone in my home. When they are in my home I am here and they are never behind a closed door!!! I asked him where they where doing this and no reply would be given. Just because he CONFIDED IN ME, DOES NOT MEAN THAT I AM TELLING THEM TO GO AHEAD INTO THE BEDROOM AND MAKE THEMSELVES AT HOME!!!! He also confided in me after the fact not before, maybe you should learn how to read. And any parent knows you cant put a complete stop to a teenager seeing a b/f or g/f, that only makes the temtation all the stronger.....what do propose....that I lock him in his room, tie him up...then I'll be arrested for child abuse! I think perhaps you should come down off your pedalstool because I'm quite sure IF YOU HAVE KIDS YOU ARE FAR FROM A PERFECT PARENT AS YOU WOULD MAKE YOURSELF OUT TO BE!!!!!

 

[stealth2]

So..... where is he unsupervised?

 

[rmet4nzkx]

YOU call her parents and let them know what happened and that you are putting your son on restirction and let them take care of their daughter, don't worry, that will bring it to a hault! Otherwise they will continue and won't tell you, as it is you are aiding and abetting and contributing to the delinquency of minors.

 

[luchettes]

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So..... where is he unsupervised?

I'm thinging lunchtime at school, recess, at school, to the best of my knowledge her parents are always home when he is there, they are very strict. if they go to the mall to hang out. or to the movie theaters. But are these plausible places?

 

[rmet4nzkx]

I'm thinging lunchtime at school, recess, at school, to the best of my knowledge her parents are always home when he is there, they are very strict. if they go to the mall to hang out. or to the movie theaters. But are these plausible places?

Just about anywhere, but you have to bring it to a halt. ASAP!

 

[stealth2]

So you minimize that sort of thing as much as possible. They no longer go to the mall or the movies unchaperoned. They don't go to friends' houses unsupervised. They don't hang at your house unchaperoned. They are not allowed behind closed doors at your house. They don't stay after school unsupervised.

Is it unfaaaaaaaaaair? Too bad. When children make foolish choices, they need their parents to steer them right.

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

(QUOTE)I'm thinging lunchtime at school, recess, at school(QUOTE)

Give us all a break here lady. Do I care if your parenting skills suck? Not really, only when I have to pay the welfare for you and your kid.

 

[luchettes]

(QUOTE)I'm thinging lunchtime at school, recess, at school(QUOTE)

Give us all a break here lady. Do I care if your parenting skills suck? Not really, only when I have to pay the welfare for you and your kid.

Excuse me sir but I wrote in for legal advice not moral advice first of all! So I really dont have any desire or need to hear what you have to say. YOU SIR CAN KISS MY SWEET VANILLA ***! And just for the record I work for a living and pay my way and my kids way and have never been in the "system" Can you say the same?????

 

[rmet4nzkx]

Excuse me sir but I wrote in for legal advice not moral advice first of all! So I really dont have any desire or need to hear what you have to say. YOU SIR CAN KISS MY SWEET VANILLA ***! And just for the record I work for a living and pay my way and my kids way and have never been in the "system" Can you say the same?????

You may think telling you that you must do something about the situation, is moral advice, but as it is right now you are aiding and abetting and contributing to the delinquency of minors, but you are not getting it, THAT IS LEGAL ADVICE!!!!

 

[stealth2]

While you may not have been in the system (and there's certainly no reason to suspect you have been), how do you think two 14yo's are going to support a child (because, the odds are that they will have to at some point sooner rather than later)? Unless they do the mature thing and put the child up for adoption, there is a very strong likelihood that the mother will end up receiving state aid. Paid for by taxpayers.

 

[luchettes]

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You may think telling you that you must do something about the situation, is moral advice, but as it is right now you are aiding and abetting and contributing to the delinquency of minors, but you are not getting it, THAT IS LEGAL ADVICE!!!!

I give up! Say what you will, I found out exactly three days ago about this situation and now all of a sudden I'm aiding and abetting and contibuting to the delinquency of minors! I thought we were innocent until proven quilty?
I will do what I need to do to stop this situation from occurring in the future, but I can see now writting in to this site was definitely not a good idea. My instincts told what was right from the start and I would have come to the same conclusion without getting browbeat by monsters like you.

 

[stealth2]

now all of a sudden I'm aiding and abetting and contibuting to the delinquency of minors!

Well, what would you call it if you were to take someone else's child for a contraceptive prescription and/or shrug your shoulders while saying "they're going to have sex anyway"?

 

[cbg]

You said earlier that you can't lock him in his room.

Might I ask why not? I believe it's traditionally called, "You're grounded, kid'.

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

Excuse me sir but I wrote in for legal advice not moral advice first of all! So I really dont have any desire or need to hear what you have to say. YOU SIR CAN KISS MY SWEET VANILLA ***! And just for the record I work for a living and pay my way and my kids way and have never been in the "system" Can you say the same?????

Just for the record, I am a "HER". No, I have never been in the system, nor have I ever taken someone elses 14 yr. old child to get on the pill because I was allowing my 14 yr. old kid to boink her. You lady have a warped sense of reality.

You and your son need a restrainging order slapped on you, because you just don't get it.