CJane
Senior Member
I disagree. While he's not REQUIRED to tell mom, it is probably best for everyone if he does. She'll find out whether he tells her or not. It's better for him to be straight forward with mom and tell her that he will be stopping by the daycare every day to check the child's homework. Otherwise, the child ends up in the middle. A 7 year old will more then likely tell mom, "I saw daddy today" when mom comes to pick her up.
And, it's best not to put the other parent on the defensive more often than is necessary. If dad isn't up front, I can see mom posting here wanting to know what she can do to keep dad from stopping by daycare on HER days... yanno?
Dad - be honest with mom.