can we get custody?

[DRAGONSFIRE]

Here's a valuable education (I'm surprised pregnant women and mothers aren't taught or research this during all the doctor visits during and after a pregnancy!!).
Women usually ovulate somewhere around 12-15 days after the first day of menstruation. That is something every woman NEED to learn about their bodies. So with sex only once a week, it should be easy peasy to avoid pregnancies. I am not saying that you shouldn't have have kids, I don't care how many you have, but I don't believe that the same "accident" happens over and over again when it's so easily avoided. Have as many kids as you want, just don't say that they are "unplanned" or "surprises".

Good luck to you

My body has always been screwed up, my menstration were never regular, and would last between 2-14days each month, and sometimes I didnt get it. I am one of the ones who would have to use tests in order to find out excatly when I was ovulating.

"For your existing kid's sake I hope you are using 2 birthcontrols now, don't add more kids into this situation"..and this sounds like you were telling me not to have no more kids. But both of my kids were "unplanned". But were also 3 yrs apart. I had used about 3 different types of BC pills and the patch. The pills did not work, since I have kids now, and I had an allergic reaction to the patch. I was finally put on the depo and it works better than anything else I have tried.

 

[stealth2]

and this sounds like you were telling me not to have no more kids.

You do realize that you just said she said you SHOULD have more kids, right?