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Artemis_ofthe_Hunt

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LOL true.

If no one can tell... this is a HUGE pet peeve of mine. There are enough unwanted pups and kittens around. To be a pet owner (note, I do not say a breeder!*) and not neuter your animal as soon as possible - is nothing but irresponsible.

* and by breeder I do not mean someone who thinks their pet neeeeeeeds to have a litter or that their children neeeeeeeed to learn about the circle of life that way. I mean someone who is seriously working to improve and propagate the particular breed.
I believe in spaying/neutering if for the only reason of avoiding more vet bills for maternity care. Then there is the whole avoiding unwanted behaviors like marking territory (which doesn't always work) etc.. etc... etc...
 


sometwo

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So your male is also not neutered?

Seriously, people. NEUTER YOUR DOGS!
nope. My dog stays in my yard now that I figured out when that dog comes in heat I have to bump up his collar. Its not my fault they let their dog run loose while in heat . She has many many dogs chasing after her in the streets. My dog just sits at the end of the yard . If she comes in my yard and gets pregnant that's not my fault. I am taking care of my dog. I bought a fence that's over 300 bucks for my dog. I believe I've done my part. I can't be responsible for other people too.
 

Proserpina

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LOL true.

If no one can tell... this is a HUGE pet peeve of mine. There are enough unwanted pups and kittens around. To be a pet owner (note, I do not say a breeder!*) and not neuter your animal as soon as possible - is nothing but irresponsible.

* and by breeder I do not mean someone who thinks their pet neeeeeeeds to have a litter or that their children neeeeeeeed to learn about the circle of life that way. I mean someone who is seriously working to improve and propagate the particular breed.


Yeap! In complete agreement. Pup was fixed as a widdle pup, just after she was old enough - although she still likes to hump everything not nailed down to the floor (and even then...). Kittehs were fixed before their first heat, and are doing great.

(If bossy. That being the nature of kittehs, I suppose!)

Then - sigh - you have SD who has 8 (it might be 8 - could be 6. I can never tell) unfixed cats at the moment, one of which is male. It wouldn't be so bad but since they're on assistance the local SPCA has a program where you can get both cats AND dogs fixed - for free!

I should end now before I go on a rant. :eek:
 

sometwo

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Out of curiosity - why is your dog not neutered?
I don't want to spend the money to do it since I think its unnecessary because I spent over 300 on a fence to keep him in my yard.
 

CJane

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I don't want to spend the money to do it since I think its unnecessary because I spent over 300 on a fence to keep him in my yard.
Ugh. I would neuter my dogs for the sheer aesthetic value, if I didn't believe so strongly in it for all of the other reasons.

I guess this is the same school of thought, that when extrapolated, results in "Well, she was asking for it, my son certainly bears no responsibility if she's just gonna go wandering around like a B*word in heat."
 

LdiJ

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LOL true.

If no one can tell... this is a HUGE pet peeve of mine. There are enough unwanted pups and kittens around. To be a pet owner (note, I do not say a breeder!*) and not neuter your animal as soon as possible - is nothing but irresponsible.

* and by breeder I do not mean someone who thinks their pet neeeeeeeds to have a litter or that their children neeeeeeeed to learn about the circle of life that way. I mean someone who is seriously working to improve and propagate the particular breed.
I completely understand your pet peeve. I completely respect the fact that you were fussing at me.

Where I live, thats kind of not true. Kittens are extremely difficult to find. We have very few pet stores anymore, and they rarely sell ordinary kittens...and the human society and the animal shelter generally have very few as well.

Before I bought Mikey I went to both the animal shelter and the human society with the idea of adopting a dog, and if I had wanted a pit bull, no problem, but at the time every other dog they had was already on hold for somebody else.

I did the rounds last year as well, because I was considering getting a small dog for my granddaughter, but the same problem existed. The shelter had advertised a $4.00 adoption fee for one day only. The line was literally hundreds of people long and everyone was going away disappointed. I stuck it out but once I got in, again, virtually every dog that wasn't a pit bull was already spoken for. I realize that pit bulls have gotten a bad name, due to some rotten pet owners, but I won't risk one with a child in the house, or even children in the area, no matter how good natured a specific dog seems to be.

Its also pretty rare to see true mutts anymore, and I have always thought that mutts were better natured than purebreds.

I have one cat that I consider to be a breeder. She isn't purebred or anything like that but she is extraordinarily pretty and produces exceptionally pretty offspring. For every litter of 3-5 kittens, I could easily place 50-100. I have developed a first come, first serve policy and generally they are all gone by noon on the first day the ad appears. I have even gotten to the point where I start my ads on a Saturday to give most working people a shot at being "first come".

It wasn't like that even 10 years ago. 10 years ago there were free kittens and pups available to anyone who wanted one, and there were lots of pet stores selling non-purebreds at fairly reasonable prices. People could pick and choose. Its quite different now.

My vet honestly is anti spaying or neutering really early. If you really fuss at him he will do it at six months, but he prefers to wait until 8-9 months, or even older.
 

Artemis_ofthe_Hunt

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I completely understand your pet peeve. I completely respect the fact that you were fussing at me.


My vet honestly is anti spaying or neutering really early. If you really fuss at him he will do it at six months, but he prefers to wait until 8-9 months, or even older.
When I was stationed at Ft. Bliss, my now ex and I adopted a puppy. She was 4 weeks old at the time and was taken home the week before we adopted her and brought back. She was spayed at 3.5 weeks. I argued (before we decided on Stink) with the HS that we would bring whatever animal back that we adopted to be spayed/neutered at a more appropriate age... no way, they said. So, we picked Stink. She was a pit/rhodesian ridgeback mix. Extremely rare in the US at the time, something like less than 100 in the lower 48... great dog, passed away this year. Miss her still and almost (ALMOST) wish we had had the opportunity to breed her to get a puppy or puppies with her personality out of her.
 

mistoffolees

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Where I live, thats kind of not true. Kittens are extremely difficult to find. We have very few pet stores anymore, and they rarely sell ordinary kittens...and the human society and the animal shelter generally have very few as well.
That's awfully hard to believe. Excess cats and dogs are an enormous problem throughout the country.

(Not to mention that even if it's true, it's not excuse for letting your dog father 7 unwanted litters).

Unwanted kittens a timebomb | Stuff.co.nz

Welcome to Bradley County, Tennessee - Avoiding an Overpopulation of Unwanted Puppies and Kittens

Local shelters will begin filling up with unwanted kittens as kitten season goes into high gear. - Charlottesville pet news | Examiner.com
 

penelope10

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"Its also pretty rare to see true mutts anymore, and I have always thought that mutts were better natured than purebreds."

Lol, they are now called designer dogs and often cost more than the pure breeds.

My daughter had two, one a yorkie and poodle, and the other a poodle and chihuahua. The yorkie mix was about $2000 bucks. My boyfriend has a shih tzu that his sister is trying to breed with her female yorkie. Those pups go for around $1600.00 a piece.

When I grew up a neighbor gave us our little dog which was part pug and part chihuahua. He was called a mutt back then. Now people are breeding pugs and chihuahuas and charging an arm and a leg for the pups. My daughter and her husband currently have a great dane and are interested in their next dog being a great dane and poodle mix....
 

Proserpina

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"Its also pretty rare to see true mutts anymore, and I have always thought that mutts were better natured than purebreds."

Lol, they are now called designer dogs and often cost more than the pure breeds.

My daughter had two, one a yorkie and poodle, and the other a poodle and chihuahua. The yorkie mix was about $2000 bucks. My boyfriend has a shih tzu that his sister is trying to breed with her female yorkie. Those pups go for around $1600.00 a piece.

When I grew up a neighbor gave us our little dog which was part pug and part chihuahua. He was called a mutt back then. Now people are breeding pugs and chihuahuas and charging an arm and a leg for the pups. My daughter and her husband currently have a great dane and are interested in their next dog being a great dane and poodle mix....


What's that called? A Pane? Doodle?

I like the sound of a doodle just because sounds...well..cute...
 

penelope10

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What's that called? A Pane? Doodle?

I like the sound of a doodle just because sounds...well..cute...
lol, I have no idea. We saw mix between a golden retriever and a poodle the other day.Now granted the dog had not been groomed, and maybe the result wasn't what was aimed for, but I did not really consider the dog to be cute.

I saw another pup out of the litter that my daughter's yorkiepoo (or whatever they are called). That dog looked nothing like my daughter's dog. Her dog looked like a yorkie with slightly curly/wavey hair. The other pup look almost like a dachaund/poodle. Had none of the coloring of a yorkie at all.
 

sometwo

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I guess this is the same school of thought, that when extrapolated, results in "Well, she was asking for it, my son certainly bears no responsibility if she's just gonna go wandering around like a B*word in heat."
I don't know about you or anyone else but I for one do not compare my children to animals. :rolleyes:
 
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