CP in contempt...

[AHA]

Since then she has remarried at least twice

You don't know how many times he has been married??????

and has lived in 6 states (maybe more) and had at least 12 different addresses.

What/Who is he running/hiding from?

He has not seen his son since 1996 for that very reason.

Which is HIS choice entirely.

Sorry, but there's a dog buried in this "story"!!

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

Sorry, but there's a dog buried in this "story"!!

You are right. I was wrong in my comment to the OP. How does she know all this and still claim he couldn't find her?

 

[GriefinGeorgia]

Sorry, but there's a dog buried in this "story"!!

I don't quite understand the meaning of that.
The amount of times she's been married and the number of addresses and states shes lived in, we found out thru attorneys , people searches and her second hubands mother.
If a person is obligated to pay support then they should be allowed to be in the childs life, so just get over yourself.
If I sound bitter, then it's because I'm sick of this attitude towards NCP's and the CP's coming out smelling like roses! It simply is not fair.

 

[GriefinGeorgia]

You are either custodial mom with an ex-husband whom you despise or you're an armchair lawyer without a pot to piss in.
But then again it's so hard to tell with these comments.
Have a nice day!

 

[Zephyr]

I don't quite understand the meaning of that.
The amount of times she's been married and the number of addresses and states shes lived in, we found out thru attorneys , people searches and her second hubands mother.
If a person is obligated to pay support then they should be allowed to be in the childs life, so just get over yourself.
If I sound bitter, then it's because I'm sick of this attitude towards NCP's and the CP's coming out smelling like roses! It simply is not fair.

the thing is...there is no little fairy running around correcting all of the injustices that seperated parents do to each other**************so while people should indeed be allowed to be a part of their children's life, sometimes they need to fight for it**************.unfortunately...to date your husband has not fought hard enough......that's not mean, it is just the truth of the matter

 

[AHA]

You are either custodial mom with an ex-husband whom you despise or you're an armchair lawyer without a pot to piss in.
But then again it's so hard to tell with these comments.
Have a nice day!

I have never failed a marriage nor am I an "armchair lawyer" (whatever THAT means!), but thanks for the concern

 

[AHA]

I don't quite understand the meaning of that.
The amount of times she's been married and the number of addresses and states shes lived in, we found out thru attorneys , people searches and her second hubands mother.
If a person is obligated to pay support then they should be allowed to be in the childs life, so just get over yourself.
If I sound bitter, then it's because I'm sick of this attitude towards NCP's and the CP's coming out smelling like roses! It simply is not fair.

Sorry, I thought it was hubby who was running.

Child support has nothing to do with visitiation. He still has to pay cs even if he never sees the child again.

 

[GriefinGeorgia]

I have never failed a marriage nor am I an "armchair lawyer" (whatever THAT means!), but thanks for the concern

It's hard to fail a marriage when the closets too small to get married in in the first place, or have you come out yet?
Perhaps you're trying to be this websites answer to Gregory House.
Either way you have some serious issues and anger management might not be a bad idea for you. Mull it over a while, ok?
Again, have a nice day!

 

[AHA]

It's hard to fail a marriage when the closets too small to get married in in the first place, or have you come out yet?
Perhaps you're trying to be this websites answer to Gregory House.
Either way you have some serious issues and anger management might not be a bad idea for you. Mull it over a while, ok?
Again, have a nice day!

Where the hell did that come from? You should look up what the term "gay" mean, but I'll give you a hint, since I am a woman and I'm married to a man that makes me NOT gay.

You're just jealous that I have a happy, successful marriage with a decent man without any legal problems. Poor thing, good luck to you.

 

[GriefinGeorgia]

the thing is...there is no little fairy running around correcting all of the injustices that seperated parents do to each other**************so while people should indeed be allowed to be a part of their children's life, sometimes they need to fight for it**************.unfortunately...to date your husband has not fought hard enough......that's not mean, it is just the truth of the matter

I agree with you for the most part, but as far as not fighting hard enough...I totally disagree...he has done all he could within the law. If you know of any suggestions , that in hindsight, he could have done I would honestly like to hear them. I am putting all sarcasms aside now. I would like to know what could have been done that he might have thought of.

 

[GriefinGeorgia]

Where the hell did that come from? You should look up what the term "gay" mean, but I'll give you a hint, since I am a woman and I'm married to a man that makes me NOT gay.

You're just jealous that I have a happy, successful marriage with a decent man without any legal problems. Poor thing, good luck to you.

Well at least you're both taking initiative in the MARRIAGE. Who decided on which one would be the WOMAN and which would be the MAN? Whatever makes you happy is none of my business.
Anger Management....can't stress that enough!

 

[GriefinGeorgia]

Sorry, I thought it was hubby who was running.

Child support has nothing to do with visitiation. He still has to pay cs even if he never sees the child again.

Maybe it would help if you read what you are responding to, huh?
And you have the typical pathetic response!

 

[AHA]

Well at least you're both taking initiative in the MARRIAGE. Who decided on which one would be the WOMAN and which would be the MAN? Whatever makes you happy is none of my business.
Anger Management....can't stress that enough!

Says the woman who is on the internet trying to solve her HUSBAND'S issues with his ex!!!!!!!!!!!! You're obviously the "man" in your marriage
Since you are so rascist against gays, you are apparently insecure about your own sexuality. Does hubby know about that?


And you lie too. Failed miserably in your "I am putting all sarcasms aside now", didn't you?
Stick to your promises.

 

[weenor]

I agree with you for the most part, but as far as not fighting hard enough...I totally disagree...he has done all he could within the law. If you know of any suggestions , that in hindsight, he could have done I would honestly like to hear them. I am putting all sarcasms aside now. I would like to know what could have been done that he might have thought of.

Go back and reread my post. The FIRST time this woman pulled a disapearing act, he should have hired an attorney to file for a petition of modification. If she could not be found through diligent effort, then most courts would have allowed service by publication. She doesn't show...boom ...instant order for her to return the child to the state...warrant...arrest...child comes home. She is ordered to stay. She leaves again? Then file a petition for custody...same process...Do you see the pattern here. He didn't have the money cause he didn't priortize. period.

 

[AHA]

Maybe it would help if you read what you are responding to, huh?
And you have the typical pathetic response!

At least I am the bigger person to apolopgize for misunderstanding, I'm still waiting for an apology of your totally out of line assumption of me being gay, but I can tell what kind of person you are and therefore KNOW that you are too weak to do that.