custody battle but neither parent properly equipped

[Isis1]

walk away with something.

imagine having an opposing counsel in a courtroom bring all this stuff up. i find that to be more embarrassing. if someone on the internet you don't even know can find it for free, imagine a PI being paid to find something on you.

 

[Humusluvr]

and, don't think that stuff posted on the internet ever really goes away... even when you delete it.

That stuff can hurt a nursing career, child custody case, a lot of things.

So maybe the advice here is that you should wise up. Stop worrying about your use of emoticons, and start worrying about the effect of your past use of pills. And start being a good role-model for these children.

 

[Ohiogal]

well now that i am completely embarrassed i'll quickly say that was 4 yrs ago and i have attempted to grow up since. but this is not about me and digging that up was.... what was that for? to humiliate me? good job qurice and ohio. you win. happy?

Happy that someone like you who at the very least simulates ORAL sex and posts the pics thinks they are appropriate parental figures. Oh and by the way you can't use that excuse. You have grown up? You still have a drug using past and quite frankly portrayed yourself and whoever the guy was as into porn and illegal activity. Oh and by the way -- the page can be retrieved. Nothing is every completely deleted.

first off, sorry for offending isabella. my husband would propably still be upset if they were white, but since they are hispanic, to him that is worse.

So he is a bigot. he doesn't get points for that.

i just wasnt sure if it was legal to have 8 people in a 2 bedroom house. apartements wont let you rent if there's too many poeple so i'm no sure if that was a law of some sort but i guess not.

Nope.

2nd my husband is dead and those will be prompltly deleted. the camera allready is.

Your husband is dead? Thought he didn't like hispanics. Oh and you think that is cool? No actually it is not cool. It is pathetic.

once again i merely wanted to know which house seemed more capable of being a fit home. so thank you for those who said the dad. i agree. i was never serious about trying to get custody. that's far-reached and it would take her out of her school and across town form her parents.

You have no chance. And the fact that you just admitted that was you -- how much would you really like the police be informed so that they can search your house for illegal drugs and remove the children until a full investigation can be done? You are NOT smart, NOT entertaining, and quite frankly, you are not upstanding with integrity. Your school finds about your extracurricular activities of the past and you can EASILY be removed from nursing forever. As well as education and any other activity that would deal with the weak, the young, or the old in a supervisory capability.

i'm not going to talk to a lawyer bc that's why i came on here. just to get opinions, so thanks for those who stuck to the original question and didnt go straying WAY off topic. and thank you penelope for showing couth. there are few like you.

No body strayed way off topic. YOUR actions have a great deal of impact when you are on here inquiring about custody.

lastly, again, i'm dissappointed that this is the type of help a person receives when they are legititmately concerned about their family and instead of getting advice on a FREE ADVICE forum, they are belittled, humiliated, condesended, dragged through the mud over the internet , and come to realize that the word free always costs something.

You are disappointed? Oh well. YOu are actually pathetic. You have torn apart your in-laws accusing them of everything from porn to drugs and yet you were posting pics of yourself that were pornographic and show you engaging in illegal drug use. Belittled? No. Humiliated? Well, you posted the pics. We just found them. Condescended? That is your problem for your actions of being in the gutter. Dragged through the mud? YOu laid down and attached the chains for us to drag you.

but only you can bring yourself down, so nice try!

Okay then.

these lil' guys are fun, they're the reason i even replied. hahaha

Beware because the police could show up your door any moment and if your children are there they can be removed. Deleted does NOT mean gone.

 

[Ohiogal]

and, don't think that stuff posted on the internet ever really goes away... even when you delete it.

That stuff can hurt a nursing career, child custody case, a lot of things.

So maybe the advice here is that you should wise up. Stop worrying about your use of emoticons, and start worrying about the effect of your past use of pills. And start being a good role-model for these children.

Actually at this point it would take little more than a phone call to destroy her. She has given us all the clues to file a report that she has used ectasy and the proof is on her computer and that she has subjected her children to illicit material and posted pornographic pictures and... Shall I continue?