Did something stupid

[rmet4nzkx]

OP has some problems folks, check out these two other threads, it seems OP has a problem with inappropriate sexual contacts and this has played into their custody case, where OP accuses ex of being mentally unstable. The second makes us question who is OP?
https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=197245 "my point is that she has a serious issue here! Just nine months ago she kept me from my son for 3 weeks because she thought I was hooking up with women over the internet.... I dont trust her as she has turned all of our friends against me and they believe that I am the one who has caused all of our problems. Not that I care what they think but I really feel she has mental problems. Should I ask for a evaluation? I know that I would have to then have one myself but I have nothing to hide" That's right, you just hide in back alleys.

https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=117715

 

[stealth2]

Yeah, time for blazer to 'fess up.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

Yeah, time for blazer to 'fess up.

cum on now Blazer, cum out of hiding, admit your problems and get some help. Please don't involve your child in your addiction.

 

[BlondeIntel]

My Two Cents

I started to post my first sarcastic response, but I'll refrain. Sounds like all the people in this story need to learn the meaning of "boundries". Daddy needs to act like the type of man he wants his son to grow up to be. Mommy needs to act like the type of woman she wants her girls to grow up to be and the type of woman she wants her son to marry.

 

[stealth2]

Just based on past history where two SO's share a logon, I can't help but wonder if male blazer isn't female blazer's fiance - which would give him more problems than just his ex.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

"Duh, which way did he go George, which way did he go?"
Blazer you have been so talkative, where have you gone?

 

[stealth2]

Maybe he's remembering the Alamo? http://oregonlive.com/newsflash/national/index.ssf?/base/national-2/1097528946112590.xml&storylist=national

 

[blazers88]

The 2nd post was made by me for my ex fiance before we split up a few years back. We ended up moving and it all worked out as far as her case with the ex of her two girls. The first post was made by myself, she tried to come back and state I may not be the father after our son was 18 months old. That I believe is a lie and I told her not to discuss it with me and she has not said anything since.

 

[blazers88]

Just to clarify, my ex accused me of trying to hook up with women over the internet after we had already broken up and were living in separate houses. Therefore, even if these accusations were true, it really would of been none of her buisiness. The judge told her the same thing. Now, I am no saint and I do date women but I have never introduced my son to anybody that I have dated. I am very protective of him and would only introduce somebody with whom I was seriously dating and even then I would be hesitant. I could write for days about my ex and her escapades but I have come to the conclusion that she isnt going to change and so I now choose to ignore her comments. Giving my circumstances, being 3500 miles from my family I think Im doing the right thing by fighting for my rights and spending as much time with my son as possible. I know its easy for others to judge based on tidbits of my life but I know Im a good father. I also know that I can always improve myself and I admitted right away that my act in the "alley" was immoral and inappropriate. This doesnt mean Im a bad person!

 

[rmet4nzkx]

You go tell the mother of your child and the same judge about your most recent behaviors and see what they say about your parenting potential, considering that you got caught it is difficult to tell how many times you have done similar without getting caught. Resorting to public sex in back alleys is pretty low are you so Randy you can't wait to find some private place or use your hand later?

 

[Smarty Panties]

Oh come on. Don't tell me you never went parking or that you've never made such a stupid mistake in your life. People do these things in the heat of the moment for the excitement. It doesn't make him a pervert or a bad father and it doesn't reflect badly on his parenting skills that he had a tryst in a dark alley.

 

[blazers88]

I never said it was no big deal. If she finds out and brings it up to a judge, then I will have to see what happens. From what I've heard, I dont have anything to be worried about but that doesnt mean Im proud of what I did. Amazingly, the lawyer I contacted told me the same thing, in fact he said to not hire an attorney at this time and to see if the DA will file it at my arraignment. Sounds like you need to add some excitement into your life, maybe you should be the one having sex in public?

 

[BlondeIntel]

English Grammar

Sounds like you need to add some excitement into your life, maybe you should be the one having sex in public?

Is the "you" in this sentence singular or plural?

 

[rmet4nzkx]

... in fact he said to not hire an attorney at this time and to see if the DA will file it at my arraignment. Sounds like you need to add some excitement into your life, maybe you should be the one having sex in public?

It get's better all the time!
Call your ex, she will get a good laugh out of it all right.
You are such an idiot, yes, your actions are nothing to be proud of and you are so uncool as to get caught.
I have plenty of excitement without needing to, or having to have public sex, it only goes to show how deprived you are, is that what you are going to pass on to your child? That is advice we can all do without.
You have no idea why that attorney wouldn't represent you do you?
he is ROFLHAO!

 

[PhyberDragon]

This one's a no brainer. The answer is beyond a reasonable doubt, NO. Unless your actions directly involve your child or other children or close associates of your child (ie, mother, immediate relatives, etc.) they have no bearing whatsoever on your abilities to parent your child in particular. Remember, even a murderer can still be a good parent to his child- even while incarcerated unless he executed a direct relative or , in cases, associate of his child(ren).
Good luck. I hope this has helped you some.