1. Illinois (or, more precisely, nothing in your post suggests a California court would have personal jurisdiction over her).
2. Personally or by substituted service.
2. Personally or by substituted service.
One would assume he wouldn't be dumb enough to tell woman #2 that he had previously given it to woman #1.If you can't return it, what would you do with it? Are you planning to give it to another woman? (As a woman I say eww..)