but to the comment about bringing up charges on her..they just went to court and she got in a heap of trouble because he has only seen the children 6 times this year and the youngest had been very sick and she had not notified their dad... because she would not let him see them and the judge looked at her and said that if she did not do what the order said then she would do jail time...
And does the order require her to tell him immediately upon the child getting sick? What you are describing is that mom was found in contempt by the court. Did dad file contempt?
and no honestly i think she is a crappy mother but that is my opinion...i think that any mother who would tell their 5 year old and 11 year old that their father was nothing but a sperm donor does not need children.....
And yet your husband CHOSE this woman.
and when they asked to come see their daddy while we went months on end without any contact
So during those MONTHS ON END, what did dad do to enforce his rights? Did he have an enforceable court order? If so, did he file contempt of court? If not, why not?
if they asked her to see him she would cry and tell them that they loved their daddy more than they love her and they just use her for money...she plays mind games and mentally tortures them.....
And you know this how? The children telling you? Because quite frankly children aim to please.
but once again i will say that your right in the fact that i should never question her about anything...he should....but i just wanted to tell you those things that she does so you might get the kind of idea on what kind of person she is and why we were so upset because she did not call him when the little one got sick..
Well you don't know the little one got sick. You don't know the little one is sick. And you really need to back up about ten steps. Let your husband express outrage. NOT you. HIM. He is the father.