penelope10
Senior Member
Well there still has to be some kind of something going on between Mom and Dad. Hence Mom telling the ex---hey Ex I'm knocked up by another guy. I mean, seriously, people that are over it don't volunteer info about their personal lives. And Hubby really wouldn't give a darn about some guy spending the night over at Mom's. (I mean he is remarried and all).If there wasn't some kind of passion there Dad wouldn't be spying on the ex with the new wife . And that's just IMO....BINGO! I think you got it.
And while a judge may slap Mom on the wrist for breaking the clause, it's less of a no-no to most judges than screwing around while still married.
And I do tend to agree that it probably was Mom who had the morality clause put into the decree. And Op and Dad may have been screwing around, dating, whatever prior to filing. And now Op's buns are burning cause they are so chapped that Mom is now is not following the same rules.