newmommy20
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Florida sorry so long just wanted to give backround
Very reluctantly i agreed to bring son to see father at his parents house(claims he couldnt go anywhere but wanted to see him,i was in the area waiting for prescription to be filled anyway) I asked if we could sit and wayne started to bring us inside, his father stopped us and said you can sit there and we were made to sit outside on the chattahoochee porch floor (floor composed of lots of little pebbles, not very comfortable). His father stayed w/ us the whole time standing over us like a warden or something, and again continued comparing my son to his other grandson junior. I was ready to go but ncp was playing w/ son and i figured id grin and bear it maybe he will bond and help w/ baby instead of doing nothing. His mother refused to see baby because she was "busy w/ her grandson" which i assume is refering to her comment that "my son is not her grandson she has the only 2 she needs." We stayed for an hour during which dad asked when babys meds would be ready for pick up like 4 times, i guess implying when are we leaving. I replied 2 hrs. but if you want us to leave just say so you know im not comfortable here anyway. He gave no answer so I figured after dad was finished feeding baby (I finaly pumped enough for 1 feeding). We (dad and I) joked around and played w/ baby together till his father shot ncp a dirty look. I whispered to ncp this will not happen again if you want to see him we can meet at a park he said ok. He then said "well im tired I was out till 4 in the morning last night so im going to bed, go to mommy, ill see you guys later" I said hey can i get like 5$ to help out w/ his meds" and again he said "i have no money" (although he was out all night and got in a fender bender and replaced the emblem on his precious car). I was tempted to say well I guess since I have no money either I guess hell just walk round naked and pee all over and not get his meds (refering to buying clothes, diapers etc..) because thats his attitude I have no money so not my problem
I kept my cool however and said goodbye and drove away. Both NCP and his dad reaked of alcohol and cigaretes although to his credit he didnt smoke while we were there. Dad also agreed to sign a paternity acknowledgment form. Now does that mean he is now obligated to support or does there have to be an order? What rights does he have if he signs the form? Is it in the best interest to let him sign one now?
Very reluctantly i agreed to bring son to see father at his parents house(claims he couldnt go anywhere but wanted to see him,i was in the area waiting for prescription to be filled anyway) I asked if we could sit and wayne started to bring us inside, his father stopped us and said you can sit there and we were made to sit outside on the chattahoochee porch floor (floor composed of lots of little pebbles, not very comfortable). His father stayed w/ us the whole time standing over us like a warden or something, and again continued comparing my son to his other grandson junior. I was ready to go but ncp was playing w/ son and i figured id grin and bear it maybe he will bond and help w/ baby instead of doing nothing. His mother refused to see baby because she was "busy w/ her grandson" which i assume is refering to her comment that "my son is not her grandson she has the only 2 she needs." We stayed for an hour during which dad asked when babys meds would be ready for pick up like 4 times, i guess implying when are we leaving. I replied 2 hrs. but if you want us to leave just say so you know im not comfortable here anyway. He gave no answer so I figured after dad was finished feeding baby (I finaly pumped enough for 1 feeding). We (dad and I) joked around and played w/ baby together till his father shot ncp a dirty look. I whispered to ncp this will not happen again if you want to see him we can meet at a park he said ok. He then said "well im tired I was out till 4 in the morning last night so im going to bed, go to mommy, ill see you guys later" I said hey can i get like 5$ to help out w/ his meds" and again he said "i have no money" (although he was out all night and got in a fender bender and replaced the emblem on his precious car). I was tempted to say well I guess since I have no money either I guess hell just walk round naked and pee all over and not get his meds (refering to buying clothes, diapers etc..) because thats his attitude I have no money so not my problem