newmommy20 said:
MY TYPE? YOU DONT KNOW ME! I dont care what he does as long as he pays CS. Id like him to do more but i know he wont, I asked for 5 freakin dollars in one month (i knew i wouldnt get it) but im greedy n nothing is enough right. take your oppinion of me elsewhere thanx
You have proved you are "the type" by everything you have posted.
Why are you not surprised that he isnt giving you "I asked for 5 freakin dollars in one month "??
If he gives you money, its considered a gift. Because he doesnt have a court order, he IS NOT required to give you anything. And, he would be stupid to give you money.
First off, if I were him, I'd want a DNA test. Yes, you'll say "I KNOW he is the father..." but watch Maury Povich, there are all kinds of moms who say the same thing & the guy ISNT the dad.
Secondly, since you have supposedly filed for c/s (right?) he will be required to pay since the filing date. Anything he gives you BEFORE the order will (again) be considered a gift and he will get NO CREDIT for it.
Why would he give you the money?? He is not stupid enough to believe you will tell the court the truth & own up to any money he gives you, or that you would forgive arrears in the amount of money he gave you before the order.
Honestly this guy would be a moron to give you anything before an order. Especially without a paternity test.
AGAIN- if you want to get money faster, get a lawyer. It'll be really expensive (expect him to fight for custody and/or visitation and to put up a good fight) but it'll probably go faster that SES.
BTW YES you DO care about what he does other than pay support. You've done nothing but gripe about everything he HASNT done in addition to not paying support in ALL of your posts.