Oh ok. I was considering exparte because she refuses to return the child. I thought applying 3rd party, grandma, to receive the child for the 1hr that i get home, oh did i forget to mention we live with grandma, in the court order was the only way to go about it. The third party was a thought becaus the mom is stuck on the court orders that state : “Other than visitation supervisor, mom and child, no third party at exchanges or to be present during moms supervised visits.” So mom believes that means she does not have to release the child other than to ME after visitation. These are unsupervised visits. These order were made this way because she had supervised visits. But now unsupervised Shes just thinks she can pick and chose the words in the court order and apply it to her convience . Yet get this, she always arrives at the exchanges with her new boyfriend. I’m tired of explaining she can’t apply orders to and and not apply them to herself but i’m feel i’m talking to the wall. And her we are her not returning my daughter. Thank you for your help.