Shay-Pari'e
Senior Member
AHA,AHA said:So you don't want him to have someone he is in love with and has respect for in the house when the kid is there, but you don't mind if he bangs women that he has no feelings for in his house.
It's not parental neglect to find a person that you are happy with! In some families the stepparent can be more beneficiary that the bioparent. You need to accept the fact that he left and found someone he's happy with. Behaving you way is extremly unhealthy and will only plant a seed of distrust, disfunction and hatred inside your kid, and the kid deserves a lot better than that. Maybe you will never find someone new to love, but that's no reason for your ex to spend his life the same way.
With much love, I gotta tell you it is HIM posting about her.
It really doesn't matter as I share the same thoughts.