How to restrict access of ncp's girlfriend around daughter.

[ohiograndma]

That is NOT what you said.

Is this better?

"The Law Is Clear: An unmarried woman who gives birth to a child has custody of the child automatically. The law states:

“An unmarried female who gives birth to a child is the sole residential parent and legal custodian of the child until a court of competent jurisdiction issues an order designating another person as the residential parent and legal custodian. A court designating the residential parent and legal custodian of a child described in this section shall treat the Mother and Father as standing upon an equality when making the designation.” (Ohio Revised Code 3109.042)


You have legal custody of your child without having to go to court. That means you have all the rights of a parent:

the right to decide who sees the child and for how long;
the right to restrict visitation;
the right to enroll the child in school;
the right to obtain medical treatment;
the right to get public benefits for the child; and
the right to do anything else a parent with legal custody can do."

http://www.communitylegalaid.org/library/family/627-Unmarried-Mothers-Have-Legal-Custody

 

[Proserpina]

And when Dad goes to court, even if Mom is given sole custody, he WILL have rights and those rights will be to allow whomever he wants around HIS child.

You are comparing apples to moldy hedgehogs.

But more to the point, you're far too involved in this.

 

[stealth2]

And when Dad goes to court, even if Mom is given sole custody, he WILL have rights and those rights will be to allow whomever he wants around HIS child.

You are comparing apples to moldy hedgehogs.

But more to the point, you're far too involved in this.

I think I said this way back on page 1... Just not so colorfully.

 

[Proserpina]

I think I said this way back on page 1... Just not so colorfully.

LOL what can I say?

I'm colourful. With a "u".

 

[ohiograndma]

And when Dad goes to court, even if Mom is given sole custody, he WILL have rights and those rights will be to allow whomever he wants around HIS child.

All depends on what kind of sole custody a mother (or father) gets.

You are comparing apples to moldy hedgehogs.

But more to the point, you're far too involved in this.

I believe I've already addressed what my involvement is like earlier in this thread.

 

[TheGeekess]

All depends on what kind of sole custody a mother (or father) gets.



I believe I've already addressed what my involvement is like earlier in this thread.

Alrighty then.

 

[Proserpina]

All depends on what kind of sole custody a mother (or father) gets.

No. It. Doesn't.

Once again. If Dad goes to court, he'll likely get joint legal and some sort of physical custody. Even IF Mom gets sole custody, she WILL NOT be able to dictate who Dad has around the child unless she can PROVE that X person is detrimental to the child's welfare.

As for your involvement? I have one word: "Overstepping".

Time to close the thread. And time to step back about a hundred yards.

 

[ohiograndma]

No. It. Doesn't.

Once again. If Dad goes to court, he'll likely get joint legal and some sort of physical custody. Even IF Mom gets sole custody, she WILL NOT be able to dictate who Dad has around the child unless she can PROVE that X person is detrimental to the child's welfare.

As for your involvement? I have one word: "Overstepping".

Time to close the thread. And time to step back about a hundred yards.

WTF? LOL. Whatever! Who cares? If you are talking about my daughter in particular, then I agree with you. He most likely will get joint custody. I'm not really worried about it. I agree with everyone. The situation isn't that bad. I am talking about sole custodies in general.

No need for you to get your panties in such an uproar.

 

[Proserpina]

WTF? LOL. Whatever! Who cares? If you are talking about my daughter in particular, then I agree with you. He most likely will get joint custody. I'm not really worried about it. I agree with everyone. The situation isn't that bad. I am talking about sole custodies in general.

No need for you to get your panties in such an uproar.

I can see from your ... attitude ... that your daughter is going to have a really fun time co-parenting with Dad.

 

[stealth2]

WTF? LOL. Whatever! Who cares? If you are talking about my daughter in particular, then I agree with you. He most likely will get joint custody. I'm not really worried about it. I agree with everyone. The situation isn't that bad. I am talking about sole custodies in general.

No need for you to get your panties in such an uproar.

You might want to watch your language, cupcake. People get booted for less.

 

[ohiograndma]

I can see from your ... attitude ... that your daughter is going to have a really fun time co-parenting with Dad.

HaHaHa! Don't like my attitude, huh?

I think the kids will do just fine. Like I said before, I get riled up from time to time, but its only temporary. Reading through the other threads, there are some seriously f'd up situations, this is nothing. Granted they might not like each other too much, but despite everything, grandbaby is well taken care of by both her parents and both her grandmothers too. I really can't complain too much.

 

[stealth2]

HaHaHa! Don't like my attitude, huh?

I think the kids will do just fine. Like I said before, I get riled up from time to time, but its only temporary. Reading through the other threads, there are some seriously f'd up situations, this is nothing. Granted they might not like each other too much, but despite everything, grandbaby is well taken care of by both her parents and both her grandmothers too. I really can't complain too much.

You seem to like that word a great deal, buttercup. Tone it down. Really.

 

[Proserpina]

HaHaHa! Don't like my attitude, huh?

I think the kids will do just fine. Like I said before, I get riled up from time to time, but its only temporary. Reading through the other threads, there are some seriously f'd up situations, this is nothing. Granted they might not like each other too much, but despite everything, grandbaby is well taken care of by both her parents and both her grandmothers too. I really can't complain too much.

The point is that you are a legal stranger. This is simply not your legal business, my dear. You may want to Google "toxic grandparents".

 

[ohiograndma]

The point is that you are a legal stranger. This is simply not your legal business, my dear. You may want to Google "toxic grandparents".

Hahaha! What does posting on an anonymous message board have to do with conducting any sort of "legal business"?

 

[Proserpina]

Hahaha! What does posting on an anonymous message board have to do with conducting any sort of "legal business"?

Let me simplify it for you.

It's nunya beeswax. At all.

Clearer?