Taxing Matters
Overtaxed Member
Good. That was the first thing that had needed to sort out. That the funds are in a irrevocable trust means he can't pressure your mother to change it. He'll be disappointed that the will change won't work, and I would you not tell him until your mother dies and he starts looking to collect what he thinks he's due. Normally I'd say all the family should be informed of the plans, but it would be the person making plans that ought to decide when and what her plans were. This is a situation where I think your brother's ignorance (for now) that the will won't do it will be bliss for both you and your mother. The less he stresses her out with these kinds demands is probably best, IMO.Exactly, a lawyer clarified that today. The trust owns the house and I'm the trustee of the house. The Trust dictates how the proceeds of the house are to be disbursed and in what manner.
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