mediator did not want to hear anything

[bononos]

Huh????

Where's IAAL in all of this? There are multiple trailers in this thread!!!! Entertaining. A little much for me this morning, but certainly entertaining.

Ummmmmmm...............

It was directed to me and I don't get it either.

 

[bononos]

thanks again for your honest posts (especially the ones about the aclu)
we are not into animals or children, i dont know how to express that anymore other than posting the pics that were sent to hubby, and now with the article on CNN about the troopings have access to a porn site makes me start to get mad and want to scream
true child porn, not in my house
we do have a healthy sex life but having sex with animals and or children is taboo

in my possession i have a book titled what your mother never told you about sex and the kama sutra, which all sex guides, , and when you think about it when a guy goes to sperm bank, they give him a "guide" to get it up, im sure they dont give him see spot run..

in one of my previous posts i stated the kids do not have access to the computer because we have passwords on it and they cant go on unless i am home and sit by them to make sure they dont surf the net
as for moral obligation to get his son i totally agree, and i have mentioned about the regrets and the not knowing, todate there has been no communication

the ncp walked out when son was 10 months old
one posts asked why custody was given to the father in the first place
the mother walked out on son and left son with father, they fought for years because husband would not grant the divorce unless son was left with him, the saying is you cant have your cake and eat it too,
the son was fine with the father and in fact is very attached to him,
when the father left for bosnia the mother took son from the household and the little cried for months on end, he was five years old.
when the father was deployed two and a half years ago the son wanted to stay with me, however against the wishes of the son and school she took the son and we did not have any contact with him until the father came home

its very sad and strange at the same time. when the son was with us meaning his father and myself and the kids he was himself, we had conversations from a-z with honesty and times those conversations was about sex and std's and girls, sports school, music you name it,
it did well in school and was involved in the band, he plays a great trumput,when son was with us we denied him or the other kids the other ncp's we give them privacy to talk with their parents, we are not mean people

in my honest opinion, i think the father my husband is tired of trying to compete with ncp, who always insists that she can provide him a better life,
my feelings is not everything is money.
she even complained by my old car and insist that we buy a new one,, sure i have nice car, and she even bitched that she wanted son to have his own room, well he does and now is emptied.

i know you guys are not therapist but hell im mad and feeling a little emptied now
i would love to tell you why we moved from the poconos down to this area, and give up my education and such, but by now you properly (check spelling) the ncp mother, however it was ok for her to move west, in the first custody agreement she was to see son every thrusday but she did not keep to that agreement,, oh well
time to find information regarding conversion in pre al
thanks for replying



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Please don't. I don't like animal and kiddie porn, nor, I'm pretty sure, do any of us want to be charged with possessing it.

 

[corset]

this is directed to bonono
you are more than welcome and see for yourself the pics
accused is one thing, but proven to have is another thing

 

[CJane]

this is directed to bonono
you are more than welcome and see for yourself the pics
accused is one thing, but proven to have is another thing

Well, here's the problem. Unless we're talking criminal charges, PROOF is not required. So, if hubby was ACCUSED of having child/animal porn on his computer, and it's documented in his work file that he was fired for that reason, they don't have to have copies of the pictures, they don't have to have proof, they don't even have to have ever SEEN such things - they only have to suspect that they're there and he's screwed. Same deal with the custody thing - if he's accused of having child pornography on his computer, and it's PROVEN that he was fired for that (even if the university didn't prove that it existed), he could very possibly be screwed.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

Well, here's the problem. Unless we're talking criminal charges, PROOF is not required. So, if hubby was ACCUSED of having child/animal porn on his computer, and it's documented in his work file that he was fired for that reason, they don't have to have copies of the pictures, they don't have to have proof, they don't even have to have ever SEEN such things - they only have to suspect that they're there and he's screwed. Same deal with the custody thing - if he's accused of having child pornography on his computer, and it's PROVEN that he was fired for that (even if the university didn't prove that it existed), he could very possibly be screwed.

Maybe he is into that! He must like punishment to stay with OP after all her emails have cost him in life, sadly, it shows how important his child is/not in his life.

 

[corset]

until you have walked in our shoes, dont judge people.
people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones

 

[rmet4nzkx]

Why on earth would anyone here want to walk in your shoes?

You got your advice long ago, so please lock the thread?

 

[CJane]

until you have walked in our shoes, dont judge people.
people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones

What do you think the family court JUDGE is going to do? He's certainly not going to go rent a bunch of porn to see if he likes it before he issues his ruling.

 

[corset]

i would hope that the judge is opened minded and realize the son was not in any danger,
also if they are going to dig into our lives than perhaps they should look into hers as well, she has left the son alone while attending parties
we dont even go out when the kids are home with us

i would love the judge and courts to come into our home and see that its a home where the kids are treated with respect and loved, not barred from seeing or calling the other parents, where the are nurtured

if porn wass so freaking bad then why it is so easy to get,
just look at your corner newsstand, playboy, hustler you name is there

sex is not bad, society needs to get real
thanks
ann

 

[brisgirl825]

Ok whatever, I didn't even bother to read your post. Lock your thread.