Actions speak louder than words.I have not determind that my daughter should be in Illinois and not with me. You have no idea what it is like not to have her with me. I don't know your story, but it's not mine. So do not judge me or tell me what my opinions are. Moving to a new state out of your comfort zone can be traumatic for children. I am simply trying to ease this process for my daughter. I do not want to live without my daughter. You make it seem like I'd rather not have her with me. You have the right to your opinion, but do not try to form opinions for me.
I came here for answers and insight, not criticized.
The perception is that you were more concerned about moving with your husband to KY than you were about waiting to move when you could move with your daughter.
Being left behind by her mother is more traumatic than moving an hour away. It's not like you are moving a 15 year old child from Nova Scotia to Haiti. Get real.
Either go get your child (and wait for Dad to file a motion to have the child brought back to the state), move back to stay with her until everything is sorted out legally (gee, there's an idea) or prepare for y'all's daughter to go live with Dad.
And no, nobody called you a brat. CJane was talking to someone else, that's why she quoted the other poster's post.