I think you are confused OhioGal. Your responses look time consuming and I am sorry that you wasted that much time on an unintelligible post. Your rantings only show that you came in to this in the middle and didn't take the time to read the entire post. Please feel free to get back to me when you have.
Do you realize that if the people here didn't follow your story as you think you've told it, that that will likely be your experience in court, too? And, where there are holes or inconsistencies, questions unanswered, etc., the judge will either ask you about them (like several of us have) and you don't get to get smart w/the judge and call him/her "genius" and if the judge gets tired of sorting out what's what, s/he'll just fill in the blanks himself, figuring you're not being forthcoming b/c you've got something to hide?
There are parents that really do hide their kids. The other parent goes through grief like they've lost their child -- because they have. You didn't make a case that the child was hidden and the case you made took a long walk through a twisted park trail. When you make such a claim and then as you're asked questions, it mitigates your claim into less of a claim, your word become suspect. OG pointed out inconsistencies to you and you not only could not explain them, you got very immature about it. You were way too quick to bite off heads giving you advice you need, but I guess you have it all figured out (so then I have to wonder what you came here for).