Hex but that was your decision..Not everyone is this world has willing ex's to do this..Mine certainly wasn't..Hell she tried to take the kids away from me for good at one time...I wish things could have been different but oh well they werent...Cuz u decide to pay more than what i do doesnt mean im a bad guy..Its your prerogative not mine....Doesnt mean that all the men who dont pay excess CS should be paying more....