Im not sure if I have many better options. I don't want to take my son out of our home if i don't have to and if I kick her out she will leave with him and it seems that I don't have much recourse in that regard. Also working as many hours as i do i don't have many child care options. I'm so frustrated. If someone has a better workable solution I am all ears! Thanks so much for all of your help thus far. I really appreciate it!