Pictures of GF

[left_coast_punk]

What is the name of your state? Oregon

My current Girlfriends ex boyfreind has some nude pics of her that he took while she was asleep. Wehn she found out about them she asked him to delete them. He still has them and refuses to get rid of them. Is there any way that we can make him delete these pictures completally by any legal means, or are we just out of luck?

 

[BelizeBreeze]

Nope, out of luck. I guess she needs to start making better choices in who she sleeps with. And by the way, how do you KNOW the photos were taken without her permission. Have you seen them?

 

[left_coast_punk]

Actually...

I know they were taken without her permission because this is what she told me. The argument could be, she shouldn't have been there naked. The retort is, well even thought they were boyfreind and girlfriend and she was there naked sleeping, that doesnt still give him the right to take pictures of her. That's like saying if i leave my window open when i sleep in the nude, it's ok for people to take pics of me. I don't think it is. I wanted legal fact, not opinion, so if it's just gonna be badmouthing me or my gf, need not reply.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

I know they were taken without her permission because this is what she told me.

Well now, THAT'S admissible in court.

well even thought they were boyfreind and girlfriend and she was there naked sleeping, that doesnt still give him the right to take pictures of her.

Really? And under what theory of law did you get that from?

Badmouthing? Kid, you have first of all, NO LEGAL STANDING to do anything. And your girlfriend is going to find out that she doesn't have any case. When she steps in front of a judge to claim her privacy has been violated all he's going to say is "She told me to take the pictures." and then she's going to have to PROVE that she didn't.

And HOW do you propose she do that?

This is really too damn much. She has NO CASE.

 

[You Are Guilty]

Whoa, not so fast there. I think we're going to need to see the pictures before we can actually render a correct opinion. (The point being is we'll need to see them in order to determine whether they meet the legal definition of "obscene".) From what it sounds like, they do not.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

Whoa, not so fast there. I think we're going to need to see the pictures before we can actually render a correct opinion. (The point being is we'll need to see them in order to determine whether they meet the legal definition of "obscene".) From what it sounds like, they do not.

I disagree... NO ONE would protest so much unless they were fat, ugly and couldn't get a date with a dog with a porterhouse around their neck.

 

[You Are Guilty]

I disagree... NO ONE would protest so much unless they were fat, ugly and couldn't get a date with a dog with a porterhouse around their neck.

Well, if that is the case, I think I would consider her pictures obscene.

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

Whoa, not so fast there. I think we're going to need to see the pictures before we can actually render a correct opinion. (The point being is we'll need to see them in order to determine whether they meet the legal definition of "obscene".) From what it sounds like, they do not.

LOL........Don't you remember what happened last time you asked to see a girls picture?

 

[You Are Guilty]

LOL........Don't you remember what happened last time you asked to see a girls picture?

Yeah, but this is different. These are nekkid.

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

Yeah, but this is different. These are nekkid.

LOL.......Picture the other girl naked, lol.

 

[jpritchett81]

Don't hesitate to come back and tell us the end result. No sarcasm

 

[BelizeBreeze]

Well, As of now, it seems according to a lawyer, we do have a case. So thanks for all of your judgemental comments and no help.

What an idiot. First, ask the attorney if he'll take the case without a fee? Want to know the answer? It's NO. Because you have no case.

But, since I think you're totally drugged, just call the attorney back and ask for his bar card registration number and post it here. Let's see if this is a REAL attorney of if you're still blowing smoke out of your ass.

(That's another way of calling you a liar but much nicer )

 

[badapple40]

I want to know if your girlfriend's name is Paris, and do you mind asking her why she didn't learn the first time?

 

[left_coast_punk]

This is she!

This is the girlfriend...

...and this is how it is:

I was asleep when (my boyfriend at the time) took the picture, and woke to the flash of his camera. So he didn't have my permission to take it for one thing. Since it was a digital camera I figured the pic(s) would have to get deleted anyway, so I didn't think much of it at the time. It's been two years, apparently he showed them to two of his friends without my permission, and now he has "files too big to put onto discs" so he can't put them on a disc for me as proof for evidence - or so he says. I keep telling him he doesn't need naked pictures of me, yet he considers them information or "data", and that he NEEDS the picture(s) as "options". Really it's him being manipulative and wanting to keep SOMEthing of mine, and I don't want anyone to see them. I have saved conversations with him, me asking politely for him to delete them, and with him goofing around, joking, or refusing. After a while he (THREE TIMES) gave in and said he'd delete them, once saying only if he gets to keep one pic. He's yet to do anything, except try to get away with it. I haven't spoken to a lawyer yet because I can't find a hotline number for Free Legal Advice (thus the posts here). My boyfriend found this site in hopes to help me find someone professional to help me. Instead we got posts from people being cheeky and rude. This isn't an issue of me being fat, or a slut. It's me wanting my privacy back from someone who harasses me, my friends, and my boyfriend. It's almost obsessive, and I'm sure none of you would want to be in this situation.

If you'd like to correct me, let me know where I stand, or be helpful at all - at least be NICE about it, and stop judging. This is a place for people to look for help, not criticism.

Thank you for reading this, though. If you can help at all, thanks!

-Also, why are people asking for pictures? If I'm posting because I want someone to delete naked pictures of me, why would I post any?

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

This is the girlfriend...

...and this is how it is:

I was asleep when (my boyfriend at the time) took the picture, and woke to the flash of his camera. So he didn't have my permission to take it for one thing. Since it was a digital camera I figured the pic(s) would have to get deleted anyway, so I didn't think much of it at the time. It's been two years, apparently he showed them to two of his friends without my permission, and now he has "files too big to put onto discs" so he can't put them on a disc for me as proof for evidence - or so he says. I keep telling him he doesn't need naked pictures of me, yet he considers them information or "data", and that he NEEDS the picture(s) as "options". Really it's him being manipulative and wanting to keep SOMEthing of mine, and I don't want anyone to see them. I have saved conversations with him, me asking politely for him to delete them, and with him goofing around, joking, or refusing. After a while he (THREE TIMES) gave in and said he'd delete them, once saying only if he gets to keep one pic. He's yet to do anything, except try to get away with it. I haven't spoken to a lawyer yet because I can't find a hotline number for Free Legal Advice (thus the posts here). My boyfriend found this site in hopes to help me find someone professional to help me. Instead we got posts from people being cheeky and rude. This isn't an issue of me being fat, or a slut. It's me wanting my privacy back from someone who harasses me, my friends, and my boyfriend. It's almost obsessive, and I'm sure none of you would want to be in this situation.

If you'd like to correct me, let me know where I stand, or be helpful at all - at least be NICE about it, and stop judging. This is a place for people to look for help, not criticism.

Thank you for reading this, though. If you can help at all, thanks!

-Also, why are people asking for pictures? If I'm posting because I want someone to delete naked pictures of me, why would I post any?

Your boyfriend deleted his post claiming he spoke with an attorney and had a case.

The bottom line is that you do not have a case regarding the pictures. Move on and learn from it.