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BelizeBreeze

Senior Member
And now for the Oprah version.
She, if you want this guy out of your life then quit contacting him. Forget about the pictures and get on with your life.

So what if there are a few pictures circulating in some idiot's fantasy? So what if you have a little cheek or breast of even the mascot of your rival showing.

In the longrun only you are keeping this idiot in your life and only YOU are giving him control.
And whether or not you like it, (and it's NOT a judgement,it's real life) the next time you decide to sleep over, on top or with someone, do it at your room or apartment.

THEN it will be a crime punishable by imprisonment. In YOUR apartment or room you DO have a reasonable expectation of privacy. And no lawyer, family or not, will be able to get him out of it.
 


BelizeBreeze

Senior Member
And by the way SHE:

I've been waiting for someone, anyone to give you this little bit of advice but since most of the people on this thread have been so intent on arguing their limitations, I guess they overlooked these questions:

Where do you attend school?

Where exactly was the photo taken?

Answer these then we'll move forward.
 

badapple40

Senior Member
If Megan agrees with me, I must be wrong. Sanction me and yank my licenses. I'm licensed in Ohio, Kentucky, Indiana, the Sixth Circuit Court of Appeals, the Seventh Circuit Court of Appeals, the U.S. Supreme Court, Northern and Southern Districts of Ohio, Eastern and Western Districts of Kentucky, the Northern and Southern Districts of Indiana, Court of Appeals for the Armed Forces, and Air Force, Army, and Navy/Marine Corps Courts of Criminal Appeals. I've submitted resignations to all of the above, priority overnight, in light of the fact Megan agrees with me. I get zero points, and may God have mercy on my soul.

Seriously:

Megan, megan, megan, the constitution doesn't protect people from people, it sets for the functions of the federal government, sets limitations on the federal government and its interaction with citizens, and sets limitations, through incorporation of the Fourteenth Amendment, on what states can do to their citizens.

However, certain common law rights have developed, over the centuries, that we've brought over from merry own England or developed through cases/people bringing cases. Protection of one's privacy is one of them. While the constitution protects and establishes rights with respect to the government/governmental actors, thats not presented here.

That said, I too would agree with Belize and like to see more information to better evaluate this situation.
 

BelizeBreeze

Senior Member
KENTUCKY????? IS there actually law there now ? :D

Think a minute BA about why I asked the questions I did? Any thought in the direction of Louisville or Bowling Green come to mind? ;)
 

badapple40

Senior Member
BelizeBreeze said:
KENTUCKY????? IS there actually law there now ? :D

Think a minute BA about why I asked the questions I did? Any thought in the direction of Louisville or Bowling Green come to mind? ;)
I avoid Bowling Green, or any backwoods Kentucky area, and try to keep to Louisville, Lexington, and Covington/Newport, as am afraid of "Deliverance" type activities that go on in those more rural areas.
 

BelizeBreeze

Senior Member
Good thing. Bowling Green just blew a 28 point lead :D

So, horse country. Next time get down to Nashville for the Iriquois. I'll have a horse in next year's race.

Now, why did I ask those two specific questions? Want to take a stab at that for our audience?
 

BelizeBreeze

Senior Member
Well folks, since we don't have a winner we'll reserve the prize for another day.

Now, as to the task of putting this post to bed and to give EVERYONE some peace of mind, there IS an option for our poster. And one that will perhaps give this idiot (the guy who took the pictures his just rewards).

If you're interested in playing, then have a look:
http://darkwing.uoregon.edu/~conduct/prodhis.htm
 
Question

I attended PSU.

The photos were taken in his apartment, but he has since moved into a dorm at PSU where the photos are now currentally.
 
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meganproser

Guest
BA, I apologize for agreeing with you and thereby causing you to suffer “guilt by association”. I will never agree with you again as you are obviously capable of making your own points and my chiming in only detracts from your credibility.

>>The Fourth Amendment assures every US Citizen a reasonable expectation of privacy. It's a constitutional right, actions that constitute a violation of that right are WELL ESTABLISHED in law, and based upon the OP's given information, she has a viable claim.

Thank you BA, for reminding me that the US Constitution does not protect people from people. I wish I could say I’ll remember that, but I seem to have some kind of block on this particular bit of info. At least it should be obvious to BB that I am NOT in Law School, lol, as I’m sure a law student would not have a problem remembering such a fundamental fact.

BB, I found your information on Oregon torts VERY interesting. I guess we are looking at the OP’s situation from two very different views. You are clearly concerned with the amount of money she would get if she sued him, where I am concerned only with whether or not she might have a valid claim, and I believe she does.

>> Now, since you enjoy taking shots at me without understanding the real life application for what you are studying but "at times" seem to want to learn, I suggest you read the Oregon Revised Statutes Chapter 30 — Actions and Suits in Particular Cases

I do not enjoy taking shots at you, I just think sometimes you tell people they have no claim, when what you really mean is that in your opinion it is not worth pursuing a claim. I understand that you are trained to quickly assess the monetary value of a claim, but for some individuals, it’s not about the money.

>>And then you tell me under what statute this poster would be able to state a claim for damages and, if she does, what standard of proof will be required of her to prevail and then how she is going to prove measurable damages for which recovery is allow under Oregon Statute?

As BA said, it’s a common law claim. I DO think the OP will have a problem proving that the photo was shown to anyone. Her recent post indicates she’s taking the Ex’s word for the fact that he showed it to others. He may be lying and even if he did show it to his friends, the OP has no reason to believe the friends will testify that they saw it. Damages in most “privacy” cases, have to do with mental anguish, humiliation, etc.

BTW, I don’t know if Oregon has a claim for Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress, but the way this guy is deliberately jerking her around about these photos, she might have a claim under that tort.

I think we all know that filing a lawsuit against this guy is not the best approach to her problem. It should be her last resort because she would likely lose money in pursuing it.

Oh, one last thing BB:

>>Also, you fail in a VERY IMPORTANT point. He doesn't have to prove consent. She is bringing the charges, the burden of proof that consent was not given is upon her.

It’s not as simple as that. They would each have the burden of trying to prove their version of events. She can’t prove a negative. Besides, I still maintain that even if she consented to the photo, he has no right to go around sharing it without her permission, especially after she has repeatedly voiced her objections to such.
 

BelizeBreeze

Senior Member
O.K. SHE, are you STILL in school.

If so, and if he is in the dorm, then follow the link I gave you and good luck. At this point, it's your only shot.

And megan, your last sentence
They would each have the burden of trying to prove their version of events.
is completely false. If she can't prove 1. that she didn't give permission and 2. that he was in possession of the photos and 'publishing' them without her permission then game over.

Why? Because, unless she can prove that permission to take them wasn't given, they are private property to do with as he sees fit.
 

badapple40

Senior Member
meganproser said:
BA, I apologize for agreeing with you and thereby causing you to suffer “guilt by association”. I will never agree with you again as you are obviously capable of making your own points and my chiming in only detracts from your credibility.

>>The Fourth Amendment assures every US Citizen a reasonable expectation of privacy. It's a constitutional right, actions that constitute a violation of that right are WELL ESTABLISHED in law, and based upon the OP's given information, she has a viable claim.

Thank you BA, for reminding me that the US Constitution does not protect people from people. I wish I could say I’ll remember that, but I seem to have some kind of block on this particular bit of info. At least it should be obvious to BB that I am NOT in Law School, lol, as I’m sure a law student would not have a problem remembering such a fundamental fact.

BB, I found your information on Oregon torts VERY interesting. I guess we are looking at the OP’s situation from two very different views. You are clearly concerned with the amount of money she would get if she sued him, where I am concerned only with whether or not she might have a valid claim, and I believe she does.

>> Now, since you enjoy taking shots at me without understanding the real life application for what you are studying but "at times" seem to want to learn, I suggest you read the Oregon Revised Statutes Chapter 30 — Actions and Suits in Particular Cases

I do not enjoy taking shots at you, I just think sometimes you tell people they have no claim, when what you really mean is that in your opinion it is not worth pursuing a claim. I understand that you are trained to quickly assess the monetary value of a claim, but for some individuals, it’s not about the money.

>>And then you tell me under what statute this poster would be able to state a claim for damages and, if she does, what standard of proof will be required of her to prevail and then how she is going to prove measurable damages for which recovery is allow under Oregon Statute?

As BA said, it’s a common law claim. I DO think the OP will have a problem proving that the photo was shown to anyone. Her recent post indicates she’s taking the Ex’s word for the fact that he showed it to others. He may be lying and even if he did show it to his friends, the OP has no reason to believe the friends will testify that they saw it. Damages in most “privacy” cases, have to do with mental anguish, humiliation, etc.

BTW, I don’t know if Oregon has a claim for Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress, but the way this guy is deliberately jerking her around about these photos, she might have a claim under that tort.

I think we all know that filing a lawsuit against this guy is not the best approach to her problem. It should be her last resort because she would likely lose money in pursuing it.

Oh, one last thing BB:

>>Also, you fail in a VERY IMPORTANT point. He doesn't have to prove consent. She is bringing the charges, the burden of proof that consent was not given is upon her.

It’s not as simple as that. They would each have the burden of trying to prove their version of events. She can’t prove a negative. Besides, I still maintain that even if she consented to the photo, he has no right to go around sharing it without her permission, especially after she has repeatedly voiced her objections to such.
Megan: I appreciate you not messing with my credibility.

BTW, I don’t know if Oregon has a claim for Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress, but the way this guy is deliberately jerking her around about these photos, she might have a claim under that tort.
First, let me say that I believe Belize's approach is a sound one, to not only evaluate cases on whether all the elements are met, but also whether or not the net outcome is worth it. The only point I would make, and have been making, is that sometimes, such as here, even though the damages might not be profitable, pursuing injunctive relief and just getting the guy to stop the behavior thats obviously wrong might be "worth it" for the OP to expend the money to pursue a claim.

Second, Megan, let me give you a lesson on evaluating claims, and this is true of statutory violations, constitutional violations, common law claims, and the like. This goes back to, well, back to the first day of law school. And the other non-lawyers out there that are hell-bent on giving advice around here can/should do the same. You need to look at the elements of the claim. You need to see whether the elements are read in the conjunctive (AND, thus all need to be met) or disjunctive (OR, meaning any one can be met). Whether any element is met, is, of course, also open to interpretation, and lawyers argue about those very points all day long (in fact, Belize and I argued here about the points).

Lets talk about Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress, shall we?

(1) that the actor either intended to cause emotional distress or knew or should have known that the actions taken would result in serious emotional distress to the plaintiff; (2) that the actor's conduct was so extreme and outrageous as to go beyond all possible bounds of decency and was such that it could be considered as utterly intolerable in a civilized community; (3) that the actor's actions were the proximate cause of plaintiff's psychological injury; and (4) that the mental anguish suffered by the plaintiff was serious and of a nature that no reasonable man could be expected to endure it.

So, this is a conjunctive test, all elements need to be met. You are shaky on a number of elements, but, assuming you can show he intended to cause her emotional distress (the first), and that his actions were the cause of her distress (the third), you still fall short on the second and fourth.

Hows that you ask? Because it truly has to be outrageous, and showing someone's naked pictures, while potentially embarassing, isn't going to result in a debilitating psychological injury that rises to the degree to sustain an IIED claim. If you've had any experience looking at the kinds of cases that sustain an IIED claim, you've generally got people seeking serious mental treatment as a result of the plaintiff's conduct. Perhaps you can point to where the poster indicated she was treating with a psychologist, or where she indicated what mental stresses and conditions she was suffering as a result?

I've had the opportunity to litigate one of these. In the case I handled (defended) a 80 year old plaintiff who was basically the victim of a real estate developers' protracted plan to get him to sell his property, by means of repeated telephone calls, annoying visits, etc. The final visit, the developer had the plaintiff so upset that he suffered a heart attack. That was held not to be IIED, and we obtained summary judgment for my dirt-ball client, the developer. That holding was upheld on appeal.
 

badapple40

Senior Member
I still think she can make out a case on an invasion of privacy theory. Especially if the defendant is some dumb schmuch who can't afford an attorney and may even be stupid enough to admit he's spreading the photos around.

Yes, there are proof issues. Yes there are damages issues. But in terms of meeting a prima facie case, well, I think she's got one. I'm certain I could get her case in front of a jury. It might not be worth it in the end, but she's apparently not after $$, she just wants this dude to stop.

As such, I'd think a letter asking him to cease and desist, with a copy of a draft complaint, ready for filing in the court of general jurisdiction, would probably achieve the desired result.
 

BelizeBreeze

Senior Member
But she has already said his family is 80% attorneys. So that won't happen.

So, that's why I posted the link I did.

I think taking this to the University Sexual Harassment Council, especially after reading the Oregon State Board of Education guidelines, would not only put every student (girls who might think about dating him) on notice, it would embarrass the hell out of him and ultimately get him suspended or expelled from school.

Ahhhhh, sweet justice :D
 

badapple40

Senior Member
BelizeBreeze said:
But she has already said his family is 80% attorneys. So that won't happen.

So, that's why I posted the link I did.

I think taking this to the University Sexual Harassment Council, especially after reading the Oregon State Board of Education guidelines, would not only put every student (girls who might think about dating him) on notice, it would embarrass the hell out of him and ultimately get him suspended or expelled from school.

Ahhhhh, sweet justice :D
True. Agreed. She should follow up by lodging a complaint with the University.

But I think she should also send him a cease and desist letter with a draft complaint. You know and I know that everytime a family member comes to you having done something stupid, you tell them to stop (I've told family members that on several occasions). In her case, all she wants him to do is stop. I'd think the letter with draft complaint would probably garner advice from his family to just delete her naked picture.
 

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