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[ProSeDadinMD]

If you didn't allow them to believe that you were somehow connected to L'l sis, how did you get them to give you any information regarding her?

That is where I think that you possibly made a big mistake. There was nothing wrong with calling them to get information about their classes and times and dates, but once you asked a question about someone else's child, you crossed a pretty big line. I wouldn't have done that.

Think about it? Lets say you get married and have another child. If the ex made calls to outsider organizations etc to try to get information regarding your child, what would your reaction be?

I identified myself as the father of L'il Sis's sister. The fact that they gave out information based on that is not my fault. They could have simply said "we can't tell you".

 

[profmum]

I identified myself as the father of L'il Sis's sister. The fact that they gave out information based on that is not my fault. They could have simply said "we can't tell you".

I dont think it is any fatal mistake but maybe enough to get a stern "no-no" from the judge, no real basis for harrasment here.

 

[wileybunch]

I identified myself as the father of L'il Sis's sister. The fact that they gave out information based on that is not my fault. They could have simply said "we can't tell you".

Which is why there really isn't anything Mom can do legally about it, but it was still one of those "getting busted" moments that just causes friction and makes life harder for everyone. I'm all for catching liars in their lies, but for this sort of thing, the fall out isn't worth it and it does appear to make you seem obsessed. I would be very irritated if my ex did something like that (he hasn't, but then I'm not a liar, but still ...).

 

[ProSeDadinMD]

.... just causes friction and makes life harder for everyone......

We were already "rubbing two sticks togther" like Tom Hanks trying to start a fire in Castaway...