TinkerBelleLuvr
Senior Member
I found this posting made by Courtclerk on another forum. You will note that it is about maximizing the amount of time to be spent by the PARENTS with the child. It is NOT about maximizing the amount of time to be spent with a stepparent versus a grandparent.
As for length of time, you might want want to appease him with something like "a period of time exceeding 12 hours that includes an overnight." I know all about not wanting to see the X anymore than you have to.![Big grin :D :D](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
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This posting was by a "fiance":
As for length of time, you might want want to appease him with something like "a period of time exceeding 12 hours that includes an overnight." I know all about not wanting to see the X anymore than you have to.
This posting was by a "fiance":
Right of First Refusal Provisions in Parenting Plan
The "Right Of First Refusal" is a provision frequently written into custody orders and parenting plans. The intent of a Right Of First Refusal provision is to maximize the time child spends with both parents (especially the non-custodial parent, whose time is normally limited to begin with).
In its most basic form, Right Of First Refusal means that before either parent can use the services of a baby-sitter or other third-party caregiver, THE OP IS AND WILL ALWAYS BE CONSIDERED A THIRD-PARTY CAREGIVER the other parent must be given the opportunity to care for the child during that time. The kind of situations where Right Of First Refusal typically apply are both "spur of the moment" occurrences (your car breaks down and you're unable to pick up the child at school), as well as situations that are planned in advance (for example, job interviews, doctors' appointments, or night classes).