Terminating parental rights

[amazil]

Well thank you! That's at least one advice you gave my husband!

Ok so why was there a no contact order? And you got legal advice. You can't give up your rights w/o mom's consent.

 

[amazil]

Oh really! What a hypocrit! Thanks Gen for giving me that information! Like I said nobody in this world is perfect and here she comes battering my husband and I down! She's just as bad as we are by being a hypocrit!

Lol this is coming from a so called woman who of all the people in the world to reproduce with, she picks a retarded truck driver. Who in fact doesnt want his kids, and pawns them off on hubby #2 for TPR. Oh and during a divorce decides that she should move in with hubby #1's mother and then tell dear old mommy in law that her own son can not come to the house. LOL> Please tell us, were you in fact giving your husband good sex? Oh and more stones to throw, please read her past posts to where she was telling people to stop picking on her in this forum, and she is asking only for legal advice not verbal harrassment. Yet she does it now to new posters. The irony is so thick.........................

 

[legalcuriosity]

The fact that you got on here and had to get involved in your husband's online conversations just proves that he is pussy whipped.

Just the other day, I saw LdiJ drop an edited f-bomb, now brisgirl whips this out! I am writing this one down!! Can we archive this?!

 

[brisgirl825]

Lol this is coming from a so called woman who of all the people in the world to reproduce with, she picks a retarded truck driver. Who in fact doesnt want his kids, and pawns them off on hubby #2 for TPR. Oh and during a divorce decides that she should move in with hubby #1's mother and then tell dear old mommy in law that her own son can not come to the house. LOL> Please tell us, were you in fact giving your husband good sex? Oh and more stones to throw, please read her past posts to where she was telling people to stop picking on her in this forum, and she is asking only for legal advice not verbal harrassment. Yet she does it now to new posters. The irony is so thick.........................

Well I didn't ever live with my ex mil or say that her son couldn't go over there.
Yes, I picked a bad father for my kids and I am currently taking care of that situation. All parties are in agreement in my case.
And as far as good sex, maybe I wasn't good in bed, who knows. But you obviously weren't either. Your b/f cheated on you and knocked someone else up. One need not wonder why....

 

[tigger22472]

Well thank you! That's at least one advice you gave my husband!

Your HUSBAND was given this legal advice with the VERY FIRST reply here!!!

 

[brisgirl825]

Just the other day, I saw LdiJ drop an edited f-bomb, now brisgirl whips this out! I am writing this one down!! Can we archive this?!

I know, I saw that too! lol! It reminds me of when my grandma cusses. She does it so rarely that, I laugh until I cry when it happens!

Was the PW comment too much?

 

[amazil]

Like I said nobody's perfect in this world. So why did you have to batter my husband and I down? You are just as bad. So here, "why don't you go on with your bad self!" How do you like that in return. Think before you say. Now that my parents have grands they feel bad for what they have done to us. So we are all trying to better this tibulation in life. But my husband is the one who desires to forfeit his parental rights. So please, stop battering us/him down. He knows he has done wrong, isn't that enough?!?!?!?

Well I didn't ever live with my ex mil or say that her son couldn't go over there.
Yes, I picked a bad father for my kids and I am currently taking care of that situation. All parties are in agreement in my case.
And as far as good sex, maybe I wasn't good in bed, who knows. But you obviously weren't either. Your b/f cheated on you and knocked someone else up. One need not wonder why....

 

[legalcuriosity]

Listen amazil...as you were just told, your husband was given correct legal advice.

Your husband and you certainly have a choice whether you want to be a part of this child's life -- IF she chooses to pursue paternity AND it comes back his and child support. He can be a wallet and nothing more. He does have a choice.

As far as terminating parental rights, yeah there are laws BUT to protect the child. If it sounds like there might be a possible loophole in your state statutes, then take advantage of it if you choose. If it was that easy for parents to give up their parental rights, you'd have so many kids in foster care, it would become a crisis of overwhelming proportions.

IF the child is his, he does have a choice. Whether he wants to be a part of the child's upbringing or not, is his choice and he's under no legal obligation either way. He can pay child support and nothing more.

 

[brisgirl825]

Like I said nobody's perfect in this world. So why did you have to batter my husband and I down? You are just as bad. So here, "why don't you go on with your bad self!" How do you like that in return. Think before you say. Now that my parents have grands they feel bad for what they have done to us. So we are all trying to better this tibulation in life. But my husband is the one who desires to forfeit his parental rights. So please, stop battering us/him down. He knows he has done wrong, isn't that enough?!?!?!?

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Umm, no. First of all, my ex, myself, and my husband are doing a step-parent adoption with everyone's consent. My ex isn't trying to terminate his rights w/o my consent. Nor am i the "other woman". We had a lawful marriage and both children were legitimate. There is no doubt as to paternity and the ex has never sought to get DNA testing.

One thing is the same though, they're both f**kin' losers with bitchy wives who think they need to get involved in the lives of kids that aren't theirs.

 

[dallas702]

Just a point about this whole situation: OP may not want to be a parent, but (if he is the true biodad) he already is a "father" by virtue of fathering this child. It is a bit like a woman conceiving, then saying that she doesn't want to have a baby. Well, she IS pregnant and does have a baby....just like he IS a father in the legal and biological sense. Today a woman has the legal ability to end the pregnancy by killing the baby, but it is STILL a baby no matter what you call it or do to it. In this case, OP is STILL the father no matter what else he or we call it. But, of course he can choose to not have contact with the child for the rest of his or the child's life. I wonder what that child will feel like someday, but heck.....it's just an inconvenience.

Hopefully, a good man will step up and be an example for him/her so he/she doesn't make the same mistake. A good dad is as important as a good mom. It's a shame too many boys and girls don't get the chance to see what a good dad is.

So the cycle continues......

 

[amazil]

Well this is all the advice I need. Thanks to the people who gave good advice. I'm going to close this thread now. I don't want to hear briesgirl's opinions anymore. I just don't need that right now. I'm trying to get advice, and not compare my situation with briesgirl's situation. Thanks to all of you who've helped.