Update from Dawn?

[janM]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Ohio but doesn't matter...

Anyone heard any updates from Dawn about her little guy?

 

[Artemis_ofthe_Hunt]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Ohio but doesn't matter...

Anyone heard any updates from Dawn about her little guy?

I've been looking too.. hopefully everythings ok! Good Karma, good Karma good Karma!

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

was wondering the same thing - I sent a PM to her earlier asking the same question.

 

[Hisbabygirl77]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Ohio but doesn't matter...

Anyone heard any updates from Dawn about her little guy?

I was wondering about that earlier myself. She was good about updating I hope not hearing from her means good news.

 

[Artemis_ofthe_Hunt]

I was wondering about that earlier myself. She was good about updating I hope not hearing from her means good news.

Hopefully she's too busy kissing him to worry about updating us until he's back on a normal schedule... hopefully!

 

[txmom512]

This is one of those times I REALLY hope no news is good news... Hope her little man's doing okay.

 

[DawnPlusTwo]

Thanks for asking. I have no good news to report. I've been unable to log in from my BlackBerry until now.

This whole thing is a mess. No one seems to actually have ANY idea what is wrong with baby. He completely stopped breathing on me Monday afternoon. They had to intubate him. Doctor now says he has RSV along with a bad case of Swine Flu (he says that had to have been acquired since he was admitted to the hospital, but my understanding was that it took 2 weeks to even show symptoms). They cannot pinpoint exactly WHAT is causing him to just stop breathing. He just does it out of nowhere. More and more tests are being done and everything is coming back good. His white cell count is fairly low, but that shouldn't be causing the problems he's having. We've been here a week and are actually worse off than when he was first admitted. I'm going to ask his regular pediatrician to come in and check on him. She's thorough and may find something the doctors here are missing.

Dad sent me a text this morning at 3am that said

"Me n wife hav decided tht sence u didn't let us take Son 4 r regular visit Sat tht well b picking him up Fri morning and will bring him back Sun at 9PM"

I didn't answer. 10 mins later...

"we also want him next weekend from Fri morn to Sun nite. N we want all day Thanksgiving cause we hav family plans"

Again I didn't answer. Keep in mind, dad is on a graduated visitation schedule with son. No overnight until 18months old, and son is 15 months. Also, holidays aren't addressed in our court order until the standard every other weekend visits start at 2yrs. (that was HIS lawyers doing.)

What he doesn't seem to realize is that we will still be here Friday. And God only knows how long after that. I wouldn't agree to it anyway... Not with the shape kiddo is in.

He just doesn't get it. Hasn't ONCE asked for an update about how Son is doing. Nothing. Which tells me, this isn't about Son at all, but rather he and his wife and their families.

This is a bad dream I can't wake up from. I know it. I've stayed strong for baby's sake and haven't fallen apart yet. (Although I've lost 14 pounds in the last week) I just pray I have what it takes to see Son through this.

Thanks again for asking. It really means a lot. Complete strangers from the internet are more concerned about Kiddo than his own Dad.

 

[DawnPlusTwo]

was wondering the same thing - I sent a PM to her earlier asking the same question.

Thank you for the PM. It means more to me than you'll ever know.
I tried to respond directly, but I couldn't seem to cut it down short enough to be able to send.
On the search for my thread, I found this one.

You all are great.

 

[Zephyr]

Dad's a jerk obviously....you hang in there, lot's of people here sending well wishes and prayers for a speedy recovery!

 

[LdiJ]

Thank you for the PM. It means more to me than you'll ever know.
I tried to respond directly, but I couldn't seem to cut it down short enough to be able to send.
On the search for my thread, I found this one.

You all are great.

Please keep us informed on how your baby is doing. I am keeping him in my prayers. I have been so worried about him.

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

We are sending prayers and warm thoughts your way. May your kiddo make a speedy recovery.

Dad would NOT get very far on a comtempt charge since the child has been in the HOSPITAL. If anything, it would warrant a big tongue lashing.

Just get someone to print/ transcribe your text messages in a fashion that the courts would accept.

 

[Artemis_ofthe_Hunt]

Thanks for asking. I have no good news to report. I've been unable to log in from my BlackBerry until now.


Thanks again for asking. It really means a lot. Complete strangers from the internet are more concerned about Kiddo than his own Dad.

Don't forget to take care of yourself! Baby is in good hands, and everyone here is rooting for him! Hopefully with any luck Dad'll come to his senses and realize what a PITA he's being and the court (if it comes to that) will give him what's coming to him as well!

 

[ecmst12]

Text him back with your lawyer's phone number, sheesh.

 

[Isis1]

Thanks for asking. I have no good news to report. I've been unable to log in from my BlackBerry until now.

This whole thing is a mess. No one seems to actually have ANY idea what is wrong with baby. He completely stopped breathing on me Monday afternoon. They had to intubate him. Doctor now says he has RSV along with a bad case of Swine Flu (he says that had to have been acquired since he was admitted to the hospital, but my understanding was that it took 2 weeks to even show symptoms). They cannot pinpoint exactly WHAT is causing him to just stop breathing. He just does it out of nowhere. More and more tests are being done and everything is coming back good. His white cell count is fairly low, but that shouldn't be causing the problems he's having. We've been here a week and are actually worse off than when he was first admitted. I'm going to ask his regular pediatrician to come in and check on him. She's thorough and may find something the doctors here are missing.

Dad sent me a text this morning at 3am that said

"Me n wife hav decided tht sence u didn't let us take Son 4 r regular visit Sat tht well b picking him up Fri morning and will bring him back Sun at 9PM"

I didn't answer. 10 mins later...

"we also want him next weekend from Fri morn to Sun nite. N we want all day Thanksgiving cause we hav family plans"

Again I didn't answer. Keep in mind, dad is on a graduated visitation schedule with son. No overnight until 18months old, and son is 15 months. Also, holidays aren't addressed in our court order until the standard every other weekend visits start at 2yrs. (that was HIS lawyers doing.)

What he doesn't seem to realize is that we will still be here Friday. And God only knows how long after that. I wouldn't agree to it anyway... Not with the shape kiddo is in.

He just doesn't get it. Hasn't ONCE asked for an update about how Son is doing. Nothing. Which tells me, this isn't about Son at all, but rather he and his wife and their families.

This is a bad dream I can't wake up from. I know it. I've stayed strong for baby's sake and haven't fallen apart yet. (Although I've lost 14 pounds in the last week) I just pray I have what it takes to see Son through this.

Thanks again for asking. It really means a lot. Complete strangers from the internet are more concerned about Kiddo than his own Dad.

oh honey. i am so so sorry. can you block that man's text for the time being. just send updates?

i'll be saying prayers for your little one and lighting a candle. sending lots of love and hugs your way!

 

[my life is mine]

Still saying prayers here....

with Dad it sounds like a letter from attorney might be in order, telling Dad to stop being a jerk (nice word for what I really want to call this Dad)