Update from Dawn?

[my life is mine]

Continuing my prayers for your precious little one.

 

[txmom512]

Dawn, sure hope your little man is improving!

Still sending lots of prayers & warm thoughts your way!!

 

[DawnPlusTwo]

Just wanted to take a moment to update you all.

Little man has been breathing all on his own since yesterday afternoon! We made it through the night without a problem at all.. He's getting back to his normal self. Not 100% yet, but that will take some time. He has about 10 new girlfriends here. The nurses just love him to heck. No matter how bad he feels, he manages a smile for anyone that comes near.

I took the advice of a few of you and only replied to Dads demanding texts with my lawyers phone number. His reply to that was "haha very funny."

I was able to talk to my lawyer yesterday morning and she is very aware of everything that is going on now. Her recommendations are to file with the courts to:

A. Get a no third party interference clause added in using the emails and texts and voicemails from new wife.

B. Add in that she is not to contact me in any way, including not being allowed at pick up and drop off. She would like to add "blood relatives to the child" only for pick up and drop off.

Not sure about those. She said not a slam dunk by any means, but if we can show the problems wife likes to create, its a possibility. I asked about a restraining order again wife, and she said she wouldn't advise I do that, because it will seem like retaliation. Not sure why I'd be retaliating. This is, however, still something I would like to do. Unless the third party interference clause would cover it...

It honestly just blows my mind that Dad doesn't even ask about how Son is doing. At all. I've got complete strangers that ask me how he is. I try not to dwell on Dads lack of caring, but sheesh!

Thank you all! Your thoughts and prayers really do wonders!

 

[LdiJ]

Just wanted to take a moment to update you all.

Little man has been breathing all on his own since yesterday afternoon! We made it through the night without a problem at all.. He's getting back to his normal self. Not 100% yet, but that will take some time. He has about 10 new girlfriends here. The nurses just love him to heck. No matter how bad he feels, he manages a smile for anyone that comes near.

I took the advice of a few of you and only replied to Dads demanding texts with my lawyers phone number. His reply to that was "haha very funny."

I was able to talk to my lawyer yesterday morning and she is very aware of everything that is going on now. Her recommendations are to file with the courts to:

A. Get a no third party interference clause added in using the emails and texts and voicemails from new wife.

B. Add in that she is not to contact me in any way, including not being allowed at pick up and drop off. She would like to add "blood relatives to the child" only for pick up and drop off.

Not sure about those. She said not a slam dunk by any means, but if we can show the problems wife likes to create, its a possibility. I asked about a restraining order again wife, and she said she wouldn't advise I do that, because it will seem like retaliation. Not sure why I'd be retaliating. This is, however, still something I would like to do. Unless the third party interference clause would cover it...

It honestly just blows my mind that Dad doesn't even ask about how Son is doing. At all. I've got complete strangers that ask me how he is. I try not to dwell on Dads lack of caring, but sheesh!

Thank you all! Your thoughts and prayers really do wonders!

Dawn, I am sitting here with tears in my eyes. I am so unbelieveably glad to hear that the little guy is doing so much better!

I would listen to your attorney about the restraining order. The no third party interference order should be enough for your purposes.

I am totally appalled at dad's complete lack of caring regarding the child.

 

[Artemis_ofthe_Hunt]

YAY! Baby's getting better! That is GREAT news! Dad's a piece of work for sure. Keep your cool! Its all about the baby! Congratulations on his getting better!

 

[texastepmom]

just wanted to add that i too am so glad to hear that the baby is getting better... hugs to you and the little man...

 

[Antigone*]

Dawn,

I am so happy to hear the little man is better. Your family has been in my family's prayers all week.

Love him like Jesus

 

[PQN]

so glad

Dawn,

I'm so glad to hear that he is getting better.

 

[Ohiogal]

Add my gladness to the rest. I think your attorney has some good ideas but I would place a restriction strictly against stepmom and not other non-blood related individuals. That is just MHO.

 

[sometwo]

So glad to hear he's doing better!

 

[wileybunch]

Add my gladness to the rest. I think your attorney has some good ideas but I would place a restriction strictly against stepmom and not other non-blood related individuals. That is just MHO.

And mine, too. ITA with all of this post.

 

[frylover]

Huge sigh of relief and a happy dance, here! SO glad he's doing better.

 

[Isis1]

woohooo!! baby is doing better!!

 

[Rushia]

Glad to hear that the little guy is doing better!

 

[Hisbabygirl77]

Oh, I am SOOOO happy for you and your lil one. The relief you must be feeling I can imagine. Give your child a hug from all of us.