wedding plans/custody time issue

[majomom1]

LOL!! Oh that would be horrible. You couldn't even enjoy a freebie at the spa. Far worse than it never being offered would be having it offered and you not being comfortable to enjoy it!

Then again, it would require collusion to make sure something was in the oil they'd use on you, they'd need to know which fo the treatments you'd select, supply a photo...

I'm trying real hard to figure out a way to hang onto this particular fantasy!!

Nothing from my ex ever surprises me...

 

[Suzz]

But Suzz - the impression that I was getting is that he thinks he should get his way because he thinks its logical, no big deal and he just wants his own way. Period.

Thats because he either didn't consider that you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar ... or in typical man fashion, he can't fathom the common sense in offering Mom something really nice that she probably doesn't get to do often, if ever.

In my life I've noticed that men often skip from A to C and think the only way to get there is through B. They never think that going around to D and backtracking might actually work better.

 

[tuffbrk]

Nothing from my ex ever surprises me...

Sheesh! OK - one less daydream...

In my life I've noticed that men often skip from A to C and think the only way to get there is through B. They never think that going around to D and backtracking might actually work better.

LOL...men are from mars, women from venus strikes again!!

 

[StampGirl]

If dad had not already put mom off with his request ... he might have gone about it something like this ...

As a mother's day gift from the children, present Mom with an afternoon at a local day spa for some pampering scheduled for the day in question ... and graciously offer to keep the kids while she is luxuriating.

I know I wouldn't turn down a spa day ... not sure many of us mom's would ...


but it was just a thought

Ooooh I LOVE this idea Id ok this one in a heartbeat!! ha ha Yeah we all have a price I am afraid but who would turn down a freebie at the spa???

 

[TheGeekess]

Ooooh I LOVE this idea Id ok this one in a heartbeat!! ha ha Yeah we all have a price I am afraid but who would turn down a freebie at the spa???

Me... but a visit to a computer hardware store, with someone else paying for the toys.....