What is the name of your state? North Carolina
My husband and I had a house on his parents property and that was the first mistake! It caused a lot of arguments and drama between everyone. My husband was coming home drunk a lot and was telling me a lot of lies so I was pretty upset with this whole deal with the house and his family. Eventually the arguing became fighting as time passed on. I have had an anxiety disorder since I was a little girl so the stress of it all can make me do, think, and feel some ways that normal people wouldn't. One day I decided that I think that I should involve the police because my husband was drunk, the arguing was escalating, I had my son and didn't want him to see all of that, and I guess that my husband thought something along those lines himself. When the police arrived they came in three squad cars deep, they talked to my husband briefly while I waited inside the house. The police come over to the window because I couldn't find the key to the double sided deadbolt to open the door that was used to keep my disabled son from running out into a highway and possibly being ran over. They didn't speak to me, they didn't present any kind of warrants, they acted like they was going to put handcuffs on me from the window (what about giving me a chance to find my house keys and letting me step outside to talk to them?)! I knew I hadn't done anything that I could go to jail for because all we did was argue and my husband would not let up off of me. I became nervous and shaky and I because I knew they didn't have a warrant for my arrest so my heart started pounding so hard in my chest that it was all I could hear. The police wouldn't tell me why they wanted me to step out they never would say anything to me other than we need you to step out. I then realize that my son was watching and I told him to go hide because I knew that this was going to be ugly. I refused to step outside of the house after again they refused to talk to me. I hear a loud boom over and over again at my front door and I thought *********!!!! they was hitting my door with a battering ram!!!!!!! With my son watching!!!!!! So I go to the back window and light a cigarette and I heard another Boom Boom and before you know it I had fell 18 feet out of the window I was just smoking out of. I fractured three vertebra in my spine L1, L2, and L3. I was taken from the hospital to jail less than 24 hours later and I was arrested for assault with a deadly weapon, inflicting the injury in front of my child, and resisting arrest. The assault with a deadly weapon and inflicting the injury with a minor present was dropped because that never even happened. The resisting arrest is still pending and its funny because my attorney says that their story is not the same? So maybe you can help me because I am confused. Thanks
My husband and I had a house on his parents property and that was the first mistake! It caused a lot of arguments and drama between everyone. My husband was coming home drunk a lot and was telling me a lot of lies so I was pretty upset with this whole deal with the house and his family. Eventually the arguing became fighting as time passed on. I have had an anxiety disorder since I was a little girl so the stress of it all can make me do, think, and feel some ways that normal people wouldn't. One day I decided that I think that I should involve the police because my husband was drunk, the arguing was escalating, I had my son and didn't want him to see all of that, and I guess that my husband thought something along those lines himself. When the police arrived they came in three squad cars deep, they talked to my husband briefly while I waited inside the house. The police come over to the window because I couldn't find the key to the double sided deadbolt to open the door that was used to keep my disabled son from running out into a highway and possibly being ran over. They didn't speak to me, they didn't present any kind of warrants, they acted like they was going to put handcuffs on me from the window (what about giving me a chance to find my house keys and letting me step outside to talk to them?)! I knew I hadn't done anything that I could go to jail for because all we did was argue and my husband would not let up off of me. I became nervous and shaky and I because I knew they didn't have a warrant for my arrest so my heart started pounding so hard in my chest that it was all I could hear. The police wouldn't tell me why they wanted me to step out they never would say anything to me other than we need you to step out. I then realize that my son was watching and I told him to go hide because I knew that this was going to be ugly. I refused to step outside of the house after again they refused to talk to me. I hear a loud boom over and over again at my front door and I thought *********!!!! they was hitting my door with a battering ram!!!!!!! With my son watching!!!!!! So I go to the back window and light a cigarette and I heard another Boom Boom and before you know it I had fell 18 feet out of the window I was just smoking out of. I fractured three vertebra in my spine L1, L2, and L3. I was taken from the hospital to jail less than 24 hours later and I was arrested for assault with a deadly weapon, inflicting the injury in front of my child, and resisting arrest. The assault with a deadly weapon and inflicting the injury with a minor present was dropped because that never even happened. The resisting arrest is still pending and its funny because my attorney says that their story is not the same? So maybe you can help me because I am confused. Thanks
