What will happen next?

[TheGeekess]

Why not? He is not paying child support. He doesn't help pay for any expenses for her. I am her sole provider.

Child support and custody/visitation are separate issues in Alabama.

 

[nextwife]

Like I said this was a sudden decision to to move so therefore as stated in my divorce decree I notified him within the 10 days after the move.

You have no legal RIGHT to first move , THEN tell him!

You're excuse that you got your self knocked up so had to move immediately is bunk.

 

[lil75bit]

Well, now, isn't THAT special of you? What about the weekdays and weekends you robbed him of? What about the added COST of travel that you created?

And what about that 45 day PRE-RELOCATION notice that you are required to give him?????

The only visitation that he has with her is every other weekend, 2 weeks during the summer, every other birthday, every other Thanksgiving, and Christmas. So yes me giving him extra time because I moved would be considered nice.
As far as the 45 day pre- location I did not know till the day I moved that I was going. So as per my divorce decree, I notified him within 10 after my move.

 

[lil75bit]

Child support and custody/visitation are separate issues in Alabama.

True granted. But I made the decision to move to better provide for her.

 

[milspecgirl]

you don't get to make the decision - a judge does

 

[Zephyr]

"Section 30-3-168
Failure to give notice.

(a) Except as provided in Section 30-3-167, if a person required to give notice as required by Section 30-3-163 or Section 30-3-164 shall fail to provide the notice or the information required by subsection (b) of Section 30-3-165, the court shall consider the failure to provide such notice or information as a factor in making its determination regarding the change of principal residence of a child; a factor in determining whether custody or visitation should be modified; a factor for ordering the return of the child to the former residence of the child if the change of principal residence of a child has taken place without notice; a factor meriting a deviation from the child support guidelines; a factor in awarding increased transportation and communication expenses with the child; and a factor in considering whether the person seeking to change the principal residence of a child may be ordered to pay reasonable costs and attorney's fees incurred by the person objecting to the change.

(b) Additionally, the court may make a finding of contempt of court if a party willfully and intentionally violates the notice requirement of an order issued by any court pursuant to Section 30-3-166 and may impose the sanctions authorized by law or rule of court for disobedience of a court order."
(Act 2003-364, p. 1017, §9.)
http://alisondb.legislature.state.al.us/acas/CodeOfAlabama/1975/30-3-168.htm

I hope dad asks for legal fees too cause they would likely be awarded

 

[lil75bit]

You have no legal RIGHT to first move , THEN tell him!

You're excuse that you got your self knocked up so had to move immediately is bunk.

That is not what I said!!!!!!!!!! Per my divorce decree if I do not know the address of the relocating place I can notify within 10 days after.

 

[lil75bit]

I hope dad asks for legal fees too cause they would likely be awarded

You are so funny. Can't get blood out of a turnip. Because of him I have nothing. He has takin me for everything that I was worth.

 

[Zephyr]

The only visitation that he has with her is every other weekend, 2 weeks during the summer, every other birthday, every other Thanksgiving, and Christmas. So yes me giving him extra time because I moved would be considered nice.
As far as the 45 day pre- location I did not know till the day I moved that I was going. So as per my divorce decree, I notified him within 10 after my move.

how is that even possible? did you not give your landlord notice? or not make arrangements for a home you owned?

 

[milspecgirl]

but- you knew a general idea of where- you could have notified with a city/general area.

You can give any excuse you want, IF he goes to court, the judge will order the child returned- at least until a final hearing takes place

 

[nextwife]

The only visitation that he has with her is every other weekend, 2 weeks during the summer, every other birthday, every other Thanksgiving, and Christmas. So yes me giving him extra time because I moved would be considered nice.
As far as the 45 day pre- location I did not know till the day I moved that I was going. So as per my divorce decree, I notified him within 10 after my move.

Who moves with one day notice?

What happened in one day, did you enter witness protection? Why would anyone not know more than one day in advance that they were moving? Did your house burn down or slide down a mountain? HOW can any responsible adult now know more than 24 hours before that they are moving? AND how can they uproot their child like that?

 

[Zephyr]

You are so funny. Can't get blood out of a turnip. Because of him I have nothing. He has takin me for everything that I was worth.

no- but if they were awarded dad may be successful in getting a judgment against you in a contempt action....possibly lien any assets, hurt your credit rating...really it's not as simple as "you can't get blood from a turnip"

 

[lil75bit]

what you can do is return your child to the father. expect the judge to order the child returned. if you are high risk, how are you supporting the child? you cannot notify him AFTER the move the statute says before

I have returned the child back to the county but she is still in my care except his visitation. As far as providing for the child, I had moved to live with a family that was helping me out as to I was helping them out to. Obviously no one is reading that in my divorce decree it clearly states that if i am unaware of the address I have 10 days after I move to notify.

 

[lil75bit]

no- but if they were awarded dad may be successful in getting a judgment against you in a contempt action....possibly lien any assets, hurt your credit rating...really it's not as simple as "you can't get blood from a turnip"

As far as my credit, he can't hurt it any worse than he already has. I don't have any assets so there is nothing they can take from me.

 

[TheGeekess]

And before OP throws a hissy fit, no, we're not being mean, we are pointing out the legalities of the mess she's created; and if she thinks we're being mean, wait until she gets in front of a judge in Bama with these half-excuses.

Anyone want to take bets on how long this thread continues before she deletes it?