What will happen next?

[milspecgirl]

look OP, you need to settle down. I have dealt with AL judges and they are not easy. As a matter of fact, I think most of them are insane

Can you honestly say to the judge
"Your honor, I had no idea that I was moving at all or if I did know I was moving, I had no idea to what area or town until the DAY I moved" The judge is going to throw a fit.

Then, remember that the judge will take into account why you moved and whom you moved in with. This is about the child's best interest. Is it best to be moved with only moments notice to a new town in with a different family, etc? We aren't saying anything about your parenting skills- we are saying that there is NO WAY a judge is going to believe that you had no idea whatsoever that you were moving or had no idea whatsoever to what area you were moving until the day of the move. It's not going to happen.

Moving back was very very smart. Now, you need to petition the court for permission to move and be sure to lay out why it's in the CHILD's best interest- not yours.

 

[lil75bit]

is dad in arrears?[/QUOTE

Yes and that is why I have went to child support recovery.

 

[Zephyr]

look OP, you need to settle down. I have dealt with AL judges and they are not easy. As a matter of fact, I think most of them are insane

Can you honestly say to the judge
"Your honor, I had no idea that I was moving at all or if I did know I was moving, I had no idea to what area or town until the DAY I moved" The judge is going to throw a fit.

Then, remember that the judge will take into account why you moved and whom you moved in with. This is about the child's best interest. Is it best to be moved with only moments notice to a new town in with a different family, etc? We aren't saying anything about your parenting skills- we are saying that there is NO WAY a judge is going to believe that you had no idea whatsoever that you were moving or had no idea whatsoever to what area you were moving until the day of the move. It's not going to happen.

Moving back was very very smart. Now, you need to petition the court for permission to move and be sure to lay out why it's in the CHILD's best interest- not yours.

or....with regards to dad's motion for change of custody...once mom says her answer- then the judge sees the magnitude of the instability going on in mom's life a gives dad primary custody...

 

[Zephyr]

is dad in arrears?[/QUOTE

Yes and that is why I have went to child support recovery.

what does this mean? through CSEA or through a business like Support Kids?

 

[Ohiogal]

As far as my credit, he can't hurt it any worse than he already has. I don't have any assets so there is nothing they can take from me.

Amazing that you consider your daughter nothing.

 

[Ohiogal]

and besides who asked you to be a smartass?

Qui vous a demandé d'être une chienne stupide ? Oh vraiment vous êtes juste bénits pour être cela. Essayez MAINTENANT d'écouter et vous comprendre le morceau stupide de forme de vie. Vous ne finissez pas décider de faire reculer un enfant de son père parce que vous vous êtes faits bricoler. Vous ne finissez pas décider que vous êtes supérieurs en raison du fait que vous dormez autour d'et étendez vos jambes pour les étrangers - parce que vous voyez que je remarque bien que vous soyez dans une haute grossesse de risque vous ne mentionnez pas de papa de ce frai n'importe où.

Now once you figure that out, shut your mouth and listen. I don't care what your divorce papers state. The law of your state is very specific. You are in a high risk pregnancy and yet you moved in with a family to help you out but you don't mention the father of the fetus in your uterus. Which leads me to believe one thing about you -- you apparently think that fathers are disposable. Nice move. You are facing losing custody. You realize that can happen? You can not just move without telling dad and then decide that because you "had" to move because you got yourself impregnated, that you can take a child from her father. You needed to make amends. Dad is entitled to every other weekend. That is at least 52 days a year. Plus holidays (give it another 6 or 8 days) plus two weeks in the summer -- so at least 74 days. How are you compensating for that? And for the increased travel distance of four hours each way. oh yeah, you aren't. Because you don't care. Now realize that a judge is going to care. You can whine about having nothing but your daughter is something extremely important. You want to lose custody? It can happen in a heartbeat.

 

[CourtClerk]

Qui vous a demandé d'être une chienne stupide ? Oh vraiment vous êtes juste bénits pour être cela. Essayez MAINTENANT d'écouter et vous comprendre le morceau stupide de forme de vie. Vous ne finissez pas décider de faire reculer un enfant de son père parce que vous vous êtes faits bricoler. Vous ne finissez pas décider que vous êtes supérieurs en raison du fait que vous dormez autour d'et étendez vos jambes pour les étrangers - parce que vous voyez que je remarque bien que vous soyez dans une haute grossesse de risque vous ne mentionnez pas de papa de ce frai n'importe où.

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOO.... OMG, how appropriate.

The one post of hers that's on here is the second time she made an a** remark. I reported the first one, however, I will say, that first sentence is a doozy!!!

 

[>Charlotte<]

Can't get blood out of a turnip.

Don't be surprised when you find out they can if they squeeze hard enough.

 

[Zephyr]

Don't be surprised when you find out they can if they squeeze hard enough.

yep.....they can make life unbearable for the turnip

 

[Ohiogal]

yep.....they can make life unbearable for the turnip

If they squeeze the turnip hard enough the turnip will cease to exist.

 

[Ohiogal]

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOO.... OMG, how appropriate.

QUOTE]

it was an HONEST question> I am still waiting on an answer. Boy I never took French in high school but I am definitely getting practice here.

 

[Zephyr]

Not only that, but she told Zephyr to kiss her a**

I wasn't too worried about...I can't down low enough to kiss her tush