When does support officially start?

[mom22boyz]

Thanks to everyone. I really appreaciate the excellent advice.

As to the name calling, yes you are probably right I shouldnt have based on this alone. However, this guy is really starting to make me mad with his bragging about not supporting his kids, and he is someone who I have always thought was a stand up guy.

Thanks again.

 

[Tornin2]

Actually no it cannot because in Ohio judges overturn that portion of the parenting plan on a consistent basis due to the above laws I quoted. CSEA must manage child support. The judiciary does not allow any payments to be private but have to go through CSEA> Parenting plans CAN spell out a different amount than what the guidelines would allow provided the parties agree but they still have to go through CSEA to be administered. I have seen it time and again in Ohio.

Yep. My ex and I had in our original agreement that he would pay support directly to me. Judge shot that idea down real quick. I'm glad now that he did, though -- or the ex's arrears would be double, if not triple, what they are.