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[Jennx1032]

I know it is hard for you to see that it wasn't ment for him , but it wasn't. QUOTE]


You do what you want....but he was so determined to hurt you that he didn't care that he would hurt his son in the process...You just go on thinking that he is a loving father...
I will tell you that the loving fathers I have seen would never do something like this...They wouldn't raise a hand to the mother of their child...not in front of the kid or otherwise...Nevermind when said child is in the arms of the mother...But you go on fooling yourself that he's okay to be around your child...I hope your son doesn't get hurt because you don't want to face the reality of this situation...

Good Luck!

Their is no situation, or else the courts would have not allowed him vositation from the beginning.
Thanks

 

[Just Blue]

Their is no situation, or else the courts would have not allowed him vositation from the beginning.
Thanks

No..There is a situation...Based on YOUR OWN POSTS!

But ...whatever...do what you want...hope he's going to be okay..

 

[Jennx1032]

No..There is a situation...Based on YOUR OWN POSTS!

But ...whatever...do what you want...hope he's going to be okay..

My son is just fine, he is very happy, and we both love him very much.
And my post was about achange in custody, their is no need and going back and forth on something that has nothing to do with what i was asking.
Thanks for all your help

 

[Mbarr77]

Baystategirl, not trying to hijack this thread, but can I send you a pm? Need to ask a legal question, but cannot post it on this forum due to involves an ongoing court evaluation process.

 

[Just Blue]

Baystategirl, not trying to hijack this thread, but can I send you a pm? Need to ask a legal question, but cannot post it on this forum due to involves an ongoing court evaluation process.

Sure... ......

 

[acmb05]

Thankyou
The thing being he doesn't want more time, he gets everyother weekend fri to sun and refuses holidays, and any extra time i offer so this is why change in custody just doesn't make any sense to me.
What would be good reason to change it, besides he just wants to?
Thanks

He would have to prove you an unfit other.

 

[Jennx1032]

He would have to prove you an unfit other.

oh so he can't just say he wants joint just to have it?I think he just wants the papers to say joint, cause he doen't want the time, that isn't the issue, i think it is the word sole custody.

Thanks for your help

 

[CJane]

He would have to prove you an unfit other.

Ummm... I'm thinkin that's not accurate. If all dad is trying to do is change the language of the document to say 'joint' instead of 'sole', there's no need to prove mom unfit. All he'd have to prove is that whatever circumstances resulted in her being awarded sold custody have changed and he should now be jointly responsible for decision making.

 

[Jennx1032]

Ummm... I'm thinkin that's not accurate. If all dad is trying to do is change the language of the document to say 'joint' instead of 'sole', there's no need to prove mom unfit. All he'd have to prove is that whatever circumstances resulted in her being awarded sold custody have changed and he should now be jointly responsible for decision making.

I recieved sole custody due is not appearing 7 times, is this a good reason to change it?

 

[CJane]

I recieved sole custody due is not appearing 7 times, is this a good reason to change it?

If dad can prove to the court that there has been a change in circumstances, then YES, he can request that they change the agreement. Especially if all he is looking for is a language change, not an actual physical change.

 

[Jennx1032]

If dad can prove to the court that there has been a change in circumstances, then YES, he can request that they change the agreement. Especially if all he is looking for is a language change, not an actual physical change.

oh i see, but what would be a change in circumstances, appearing,lol, sorry i didn't mean that in any other way but that it is just funny.

 

[jbttck]

Joint custody

May I ask why you would be opposed to allowing him joint custody? It sounds as if co-parenting is working out okay.

Sometimes people are under the impression they won't have to pay child support if they have "shared custody." Is he paying child support?

In my state, you can go back to change the custody agreement as often as you like. It doesn't mean you will get your way, but you can try as long as you have money to keep filing.

 

[acmb05]

Ummm... I'm thinkin that's not accurate. If all dad is trying to do is change the language of the document to say 'joint' instead of 'sole', there's no need to prove mom unfit. All he'd have to prove is that whatever circumstances resulted in her being awarded sold custody have changed and he should now be jointly responsible for decision making.

Oh I agree with that,but Since mom has not even been served papers yet and the OP is fairly confusing sometimes that he is wanting sole custody.