Rguerrero2
Junior Member
Uh, OG is a family law attorney, I am pretty sure she knows what she is talking about. She was trying to help you, but you obviously didn't like what she was saying.
She was trying to help by throwing around rude opinions like, (I'm going to shorten her quote) "It seems like your jealous, and noone cares?" How is that answering any question? I don't recall asking her how she thinks I feel. My feelings are not even important or relevant to a case. A family law attorney should know that, I'm sure. Although negative, the legal advice she gave before making that statement, was appreciated and I never mind hearing what I could do better to make my case stronger in the event that we do go to court. Just don't care for all the rude, childish comments. Who would? It's distracting from what the important issue is.
Ok you left the guy eventually, but you still stayed with him for TWO years before you left him. So what OG is saying is it was ok to stay with him for those two years but all of sudden its not ok. You just didn't want to hear that.
LOL. NO. That's not what I'm trying to say. I did not STAY with him for 2 years.
I took myself and my child physically out of the situation, as I stated before, but stayed in communication and contact with him for a year and a half to 2 years, trying to make things work that way. Giving him conditions and ultimatums and so forth, and until he met those, we were not going back. Well, guess what? He never met them. So, I officially ended it a year and a half to 2 years later.
Go pay a lawyer $400 for some advice instead of getting it free on here, maybe they will include a shoulder to cry in their fee.
UM, I believe there is free consultation out there with attorneys before I have to pay them a nickel to receive the counsel I need. I just choose to get as much advice as I can get before I make that move, because it surely would not hurt anything.
I never needed a shoulder to cry on and never will. It will take alot more than a couple of immature comments from OG to break me, as I have been through a lot worse than this to cry on someones shoulder. All I was seeking was legal advice from one respectable adult to another - best and worst case scenarios appreciated - just don't need all the rudeness.