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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? VA My XH agreed that our two children could go with my parents to visit my sister this weeknd in NJ. They left yesterday morning. This was supposed to be his weekend however our son called him Wed and asked if they could go visit family (I was...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? VA I received a letter from (follow if you can) my boyfriend's ex- girlfriend's atty this afternoon. Basically asking for my fianancial information as I am the main provider in our household. Now I have ben reading this website and even if this...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? VA I am trying to decifer (sp) whether or not I should bring something up when my XH and I go back to court. He is modifying the current custody order so that his live-in GF can stay the night once they are married. However When we were in court...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? VA I have two nephew ages 2 and 1 y.o. I normally keep them in the evening while my sister and her husband work. This morning I went to drop them off before I went to work (I keep them overnight) and no one was home. I took them to my daughter's...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? VA My XH is going to be remarried within the next year. His girlfriend has apparentlly made a stink about me still having his last name. He asked me when he picked our daughter this past weekend. When was I going to change my last name back to my...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Virginia OK I just received a phone cal from my XH. He was laid off this past Monday from his job of 7 years. He said he has enough in savings to pay his child support up to date (I think is arrears are around $900) but he asked that can he write...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Virginia My divorce was finalized in April of 2008. We have been sperated since June 06. He was ordered to pay for the divorce since it came by his actions. He filed for an uncontested divorce after the alloted 1 year of seperation (he actually...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Virginia Is there anything that my XH can do (custody wise) if/ when he finds out that I am preganant? I am about 6 weeks or so. Haven't told anyone except the father, I am trying to get my ducks in a row before I tell anyone else. My fear is he...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Virginia My CO says that all major Holidays are to be split as parties agree (and then names holidays) I have asked my XH a few difernt times how he wants to do the splitting whether it be alternating years or splitting the day. The last time I...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Virginia I know CP's do not have a say in what goes on during the NCP's parenting time unless it is harmful o the child. Can I ask that my daughter not be taken hunting with her father. He says its the only time he gets to go is EOW b/c he works...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Virginia Reading through these threads alot of thtime it asks specifically what does the court order say. I read through my order last night and mine says nothing about mother having sole custody. It has about 4 different boxes, 1 box says...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Virginia In our CS order my XH is supposed to pay 59% of any left medical bills after I have pid $250 each year. Normally we prob wouldn't have to deal with this since my daughter isn't a sick child. However she had to see a specailist this yr...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Virginia My XH asked me yesterday if we could switch from me having sole custody to joint custody. I didn't really answer him as this was happening during the pickup of our child, but if the court order was put into place in Feb. doesn't he need...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Virginia If something were to happene to me to prevent me from caring for my child properly, or I were to die, what would happen to my child. If I have a lving will and then a will for if I die, will the judge overturn that and possibly give...

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Virginia I have sole custody of my daughter (I have looked through my order and it doesn specify whether it is sole legal or physical or both) my order has the box checked that states, Custody of minor child is vested in the: (it is written in)...