Rguerrero2
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Please help!out of control 14 yr old daughter due to complicated custody & child supp
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Texas I have a 14 year old daughter with a man that is an open drug dealer. We have joint custody through the attorney generals office with visitation and child support papers not enforced or notarized by a judge.Here are the problems I am facing:*He has dealt drugs on occasion in front of my daughter.Handled large amounts of drug money in front of my daughter. She has been upset and told me about it but she was too afraid of him to want me to take it any further. The visitations have continued because I have been afraid I would be held in some sort of contempt.*This man has his family, who happen to be millionaires, backing him up and supporting him and they cover his dealings with a family trucking business. His house, his vehicles, are all under his mothers name. His mother meddles and helps in every affair regarding child custody and child support, which he pays when he wants. He pays however much he wants, even when it's been ordered that he pay 400 a month. He NEVER has her under health insurance and refuses to help or cooperate when it comes to paying for her medical bills.*This man is big on the social scene and pretty much leaves her alone alot to go out and party or dumps her off wherever and doesn't let me know anything. The most recent stunt was to dump her off at my mothers house without letting me know, my daughter doesn't call and tell me either because she knows shes punished when it comes to her being with me, due to her defyingly walking up and down a busy street after school with her friends and boyfriend without my permission.*None of the paperwork we have is enforced, from child support to child custody.The problem I'm having now is my daughter is starting to rebel and play her parents against each other. One week she's crying to me about how mean her father is, the next week she's crying to him about how mean I am and there is this constant tug of war that he is reveling in. She feels that since shes 14 she makes the rules and she can go with whoever she wants when she feels fit.My situation:I have been remarried for 7 years and have a son, with another one on the way. Our relationship was pretty rocky from 2005 till now. I am now a stay at home mom, with full focus on my children and raising them. We have moved several times, but my children have ALWAYS remained with me. He uses the fact of my shaky marriage at one point, and instability in living arrangements as grounds that she is better off with him. A drug dealer.Partier, and known drug user. He has huge parties involving all of this.My household does not have any of that involved.Please help me and let me know what I can do to fix this situation.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Texas I have a 14 year old daughter with a man that is an open drug dealer. We have joint custody through the attorney generals office with visitation and child support papers not enforced or notarized by a judge.Here are the problems I am facing:*He has dealt drugs on occasion in front of my daughter.Handled large amounts of drug money in front of my daughter. She has been upset and told me about it but she was too afraid of him to want me to take it any further. The visitations have continued because I have been afraid I would be held in some sort of contempt.*This man has his family, who happen to be millionaires, backing him up and supporting him and they cover his dealings with a family trucking business. His house, his vehicles, are all under his mothers name. His mother meddles and helps in every affair regarding child custody and child support, which he pays when he wants. He pays however much he wants, even when it's been ordered that he pay 400 a month. He NEVER has her under health insurance and refuses to help or cooperate when it comes to paying for her medical bills.*This man is big on the social scene and pretty much leaves her alone alot to go out and party or dumps her off wherever and doesn't let me know anything. The most recent stunt was to dump her off at my mothers house without letting me know, my daughter doesn't call and tell me either because she knows shes punished when it comes to her being with me, due to her defyingly walking up and down a busy street after school with her friends and boyfriend without my permission.*None of the paperwork we have is enforced, from child support to child custody.The problem I'm having now is my daughter is starting to rebel and play her parents against each other. One week she's crying to me about how mean her father is, the next week she's crying to him about how mean I am and there is this constant tug of war that he is reveling in. She feels that since shes 14 she makes the rules and she can go with whoever she wants when she feels fit.My situation:I have been remarried for 7 years and have a son, with another one on the way. Our relationship was pretty rocky from 2005 till now. I am now a stay at home mom, with full focus on my children and raising them. We have moved several times, but my children have ALWAYS remained with me. He uses the fact of my shaky marriage at one point, and instability in living arrangements as grounds that she is better off with him. A drug dealer.Partier, and known drug user. He has huge parties involving all of this.My household does not have any of that involved.Please help me and let me know what I can do to fix this situation.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
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