"We" is my attorney
The "we" I referred to was someone that suggested my particular attorney. Sorry to make that confusing. A friend had used this attorney for his custody battle and liked the work he did, so when I had need of one, this is who he (my friend) brought up.
Yes, I am the dad. Refresher: have joint legal custody. Court ordered, specified visits of every other weekend, Labor Day, and 4 weeks vacation during the summer. No visits since July 5th. Ex first stated that she was holding our son because of emotional abuse, which was unfounded by DHS, the therapist our son has been seeing for a year, and the pediatrician our son has seen for 9 years. Now she's changing it to "he doesn't want to". Well, he doesn't want to diet (weighs 170 and only 4ft, 8 in tall), doesn't read (though 2 years behind in reading level according to IEP at school, etc.
She's not parenting him....she's trying to be his "friend", and I'm so tired of her saying "I will", when she never does!
With holding visits for 6 months, refusal to see nutritionist that dr ordered, and the refusal to follow through with diabetes testing dr ordered 6 months ago (son has high blood sugar, think he has Type II diabetes, and diabetes runs in my family. two independant drs ordered this, and ex still refuses to comply), and ex actually told attorney during deposition that "there's nothing wrong with my son. He's fine"!
What kind of punishment (not sure of proper word to use here) is she facing for the constant contempt of court order? Any chance we can reverse custody?