Laura (Ldij) has deleted some of the posts, she knows the ones I'm talking about because I refered to them in the past, such as the one about her daughter's legal problems because she was present at a murder and was on house arrest. She thinks because she deleted it that it didn't exist. There was a post where she complained about how controlling her mother was. Here is another thread where she tells the OP to disobey court orders, that she knows better than everyone else.
https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=214101
Agenda? Laura is a part of a parent's group that fight's grandparent visitation and rights. So she has an admitted bias.
http://www.childcustody.org/
Re: Blagoyavich passed the Law for GP Visitation
From: Laura
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Date: 02 Sep 2004
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Marc, its both more complicated than you are thinking and less complicated than you are thinking. Contact me at XXXXXXX and tell me your situation and we can talk about it.
I am part of a parents rights activist group that was instrumental in getting the original IL statute declared unconsitutional. Please don't panic. The new IL law isn't perfect, and will probably eventually fail before the IL Supreme Court again (because it doesn't correct the original problems) but its better than the previous law. Larua
Re: It would never
From: Laura
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Date: 06 Nov 2004
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Ok guys...I have to interject a little realism here. This child is in a 50/50 timeshare with the parents. That means that each parents has their child only about 15 days per month and in all but one or two months a year, only 2 weekends per month. Therefore if grandma wants one weekend, then grandma's child (the parent) is only going to get to spend one weekend a month with their child. Since most parents are working parents...and don't get much "quality" time with their children on weeknights (between dinner, homework and baths) AND its a 50/50 timeshare to boot... its pretty darned selfish of grandma to think that she should get half of her child's quality time with the kid(s)! Lets be real here....."one weekend a month isn't much"...well yeah, its really is LOTS if a parent only gets two of them...and even more so in a 50/50 timeshare. In any case...it isn't going to happen. This one isn't a "winner" for grandma. This is one where I would be advising the parent to join one of the parent's right's groups who fight grandparent visitation so that they can learn how to represent themselves in court and avoid having to spend money on attorneys....because its a "no-brainer". The original poster can contact me at xxxxxx if she wants help. Laura
Re: does anyone know what I should expect?????
From: Laura
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Date: 16 Jan 2005
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First, it would really be in your best interests to have an attorney for this case. Second, my recommendation is to agree to NOTHING in mediation. Grandparents are third parties and a judge cannot treat a grandparent vs parent case in the same manner as a parent vs parent case. Grandparents have no "automatic" rights. If you agree to something it becomes a contract of sorts and that makes things very complicated.
I am part of a support group that helps parents deal with third party visitation cases...please contact me at [email protected] need to understand what this kind of case is all about and how to fight it. Laura