Why did his employer do that? It's absolutely nothing to do them. The employer does what they're told to do.
His employer was a family friend who cared, that's why. Most decent people will attempt to correct an injustice when they observe one. In this case, the DCSS were in contact with his employer both verbally and in writing.
Why didn't your fiance question or appeal the amount?
HE DID. I've already said that -- the DCSS is unwilling to compromise or work out a reasonable amount of monthly payment. Like I said, they feel they know our finances better than we do. They base all of their estimates of his income on months where he worked 7 days a week on multiple projects.
That is why I am here -- I need to know what I can do being that we can't afford a lawyer. It is not a feasible option for us to pay what they ask. Again, can anyone help?
Time to relocate somewhere cheaper then.
And leave our family who provide free child care for us while we work? Again, that's not an option. Full-time childcare for a child our age exceeds per month what the DCSS thinks we should pay.
So has he filed to modify?
What does "filed to modify" mean? With who? How? Remember, this is why I am here -- for information.
He has written letters, met with them in person, and spoken to them over the phone. In doing so he has gotten nowhere.
There are hundreds - nay thousands - of people in the same situation.
Why can't I find any similar posts in the archives here or anywhere else if that's the case?
Why? Do you expect the taxpayers to support you? Your fiance is - and rightfully so - paying back what WE basically provided you during that time of hardship.
You know nothing of my life or values. I pay taxes. I work hard. My fiance works hard, as well. We have nothing to show for it, however, except for the roof over our heads, the food in our bellies, the clothes on our backs, and transportation to work. We aren't splurging on excesses to spite the taxpayers and DCSS. gWe receive no aid at this time and never again want to be in a situation where we feel like that is our only option. Please don't belittle someone asking for information.
Again, your case is not unique at all.
Any links you can provide? References to court cases? I've searched and searched and found nothing. I hope you're right, because another case like my own would be educational to me.
What IS he paying? Anything?
He is paying for his family (my son and I) to live -- if that doesn't count for anything in your eyes, perhaps you should apply for a job at DCSS. Again, that is why I am here -- he cannot pay the DCSS what they are asking, and they are unwilling to compromise. What can we do other than go broke and homeless repaying the state? Ideas? Anyone?
Again, I'm not here to be insulted. I need information.
His employer was a family friend who cared, that's why. Most decent people will attempt to correct an injustice when they observe one. In this case, the DCSS were in contact with his employer both verbally and in writing.
Why didn't your fiance question or appeal the amount?
HE DID. I've already said that -- the DCSS is unwilling to compromise or work out a reasonable amount of monthly payment. Like I said, they feel they know our finances better than we do. They base all of their estimates of his income on months where he worked 7 days a week on multiple projects.
That is why I am here -- I need to know what I can do being that we can't afford a lawyer. It is not a feasible option for us to pay what they ask. Again, can anyone help?
Time to relocate somewhere cheaper then.
And leave our family who provide free child care for us while we work? Again, that's not an option. Full-time childcare for a child our age exceeds per month what the DCSS thinks we should pay.
So has he filed to modify?
What does "filed to modify" mean? With who? How? Remember, this is why I am here -- for information.
He has written letters, met with them in person, and spoken to them over the phone. In doing so he has gotten nowhere.
There are hundreds - nay thousands - of people in the same situation.
Why can't I find any similar posts in the archives here or anywhere else if that's the case?
Why? Do you expect the taxpayers to support you? Your fiance is - and rightfully so - paying back what WE basically provided you during that time of hardship.
You know nothing of my life or values. I pay taxes. I work hard. My fiance works hard, as well. We have nothing to show for it, however, except for the roof over our heads, the food in our bellies, the clothes on our backs, and transportation to work. We aren't splurging on excesses to spite the taxpayers and DCSS. gWe receive no aid at this time and never again want to be in a situation where we feel like that is our only option. Please don't belittle someone asking for information.
Again, your case is not unique at all.
Any links you can provide? References to court cases? I've searched and searched and found nothing. I hope you're right, because another case like my own would be educational to me.
What IS he paying? Anything?
He is paying for his family (my son and I) to live -- if that doesn't count for anything in your eyes, perhaps you should apply for a job at DCSS. Again, that is why I am here -- he cannot pay the DCSS what they are asking, and they are unwilling to compromise. What can we do other than go broke and homeless repaying the state? Ideas? Anyone?
Again, I'm not here to be insulted. I need information.