Proserpina
Senior Member
It's obvious to me that your purpose here is to feed your own ego by belittling others. I hope your not patting yourself on the back for stating the obvious -- yes, we have already been told by the DCSS that he owes the money. That, there is no question about.
I am looking for a solution from someone who has an understanding of family law, creative in their thought processes, and intelligent enough to see the big picture -- namely, that this is wrong and if it's happening on a large scale to "thousands" of people, then there must be reform.
The law is ever-changing, because *some* people (clearly not you, so don't bother responding) challenge laws that are unjust and look for options other than accepting the sh*t being thrust upon them.
Yes, I am done here. If I need an intelligent, creative solution to our problem, I should have posted this question in a forum frequented by people who are intelligent and creative. My bad.
Adios.
Very simply, you're asking for a loophole to get out of this debt.
You came to a legal forum and have been answered by a group of incredibly intelligent and creative VOLUNTEERS who have families of their own, responsibilities and lives outside of the forum - but STILL offer valuable time and effort trying to help those who genuinely need help.
However when it comes to people trying to get out of their obligations by trying to find loopholes...what do YOU think is going to happen?
Really?
Your fiance owes the debt.
He must pay the debt.
It really IS that simple.
If you want the law to change, write to your congressman/woman.
You're not going to do that here.