3Weymouthgirls
Junior Member
Out of site out of mind
Stealth with all due respect I have told her that she is going to be here end of story. Letting her also know it is not her choice. In the 3 years I have been in NC I have had my daughter for exactly 21 days. While I call her and attempt to speak with her weekly I am located in NC and she is in MA. I have refrained from badmouthing the mother but as I said there is underlying issues that I have refrained from getting into. Bottom line I have been as forceful as possible over the phone with both mother and daughter and as responsible as a parent can be while being located out of state. The mother is not in contempt unless the visit doesn't happen by then it's to late. The court system in MA like most does not favor the father. I want to fight but at the same time it seems futile and a no win situation.Yep - you answered my question, which verified that it is actually your holiday. Something which was not 100% clear prior to that.
And unless you physically attempt to enforce visitation? Your ex may not be found in contempt. If YOU can't physically force the brat (and yes, at this point, she qualifies as a brat), what makes you think Mom can?
I'll tell you - my two are 18 and nearly 16. There is no question of who has authority in this house. OR their father's. And it sure as heck ain't the 18 and 16yo kids. I don't have to physically force my kids to do squat. I tell them what I expect, and any hesitation or back talk gets "the look". End of story. Parents rule. That you and Mom can't get a 13yo to do as she's told? Says more about the both of you than the kid. So yeah - way to go.