My 13 year old does not want to visit me for Christmas

[Isis1]

This is too easy.

this is where the headbanging smiley is useful.

 

[3Weymouthgirls]

And, of course, I stand by all of my comments as well.

Of course which is ok and Yes my spouse works outside the home

 

[Isis1]

Of course which is ok and Yes my spouse works outside the home

then you don't SUPPORT her. you and your wife support your children. she gets half credit too, ya know.

 

[ProSeDadinMD]

Dude, you’ve gone from seeing your child “2 times a week every week” to “alternating school vacations” and 1 week of “summer time”, thereby creating huge gaps when you don’t see your 1st daughter.

If you don’t get it yet, you’ve already alienated your daughter, all by your lonesome.

 

[3Weymouthgirls]

Didn't move in 01

I concur.


MA had a better than national average unemployment rate from 2001 thru the beginning of 2008, per the BLS.gov website, so not buying the "jobless economy" as a reason to move to NC, which was several percentage points higher for most of that time.

You made a choice.

Mom won't be in contempt if you aren't making an attempt to pick the child up, which mom should be helping you with.

MD while jobs were ok the COL and housing were out of reach for most since I gave the ex all of the house and all of the marital assets I used the opportunity to keep supporting my 1st child along with my other children but I digress.

Thank you all for the pettiness and the personal attacks. I posted on this board looking for some sound advice on a situation I am trying to deal with. Instead I have had my parenting skills questioned, accused of abandonment of my child, and a litany of other transgressions. What a waste