ok you say its a state thing fine whatever, but is it really going to be in the girls best interest to have two women fighting over who is their mother.
You are not doing your fiance any favors by saying that once they are in ya'lls home that you're the mom and you're going to adopt them. that just puts the kids in the middle.
The courts don't like meddling second wives which is what you are on the verge of becoming. Those kids are caught in the middle please don't make the situation worse by pursueing an avenue that is only going to make the children feel like they have to choose.
No child should ever feel like they have to choose between their parents and step-parents.
You are not doing your fiance any favors by saying that once they are in ya'lls home that you're the mom and you're going to adopt them. that just puts the kids in the middle.
The courts don't like meddling second wives which is what you are on the verge of becoming. Those kids are caught in the middle please don't make the situation worse by pursueing an avenue that is only going to make the children feel like they have to choose.
No child should ever feel like they have to choose between their parents and step-parents.